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Who do u think is more able to establish another relationship after break up? A gal or a guy?
I know its difficult for anyone to establish a new relationship after a break up. but we got to move on, we just don want become stagnant. who do u think can overcome or handle this crisis better? a gal or a guy?
Pls give star so that i can have more opinion about this.
thanks for your opinions.
This is an interesting question!
In my experience the level of affection and desire may be equal but I think it’s more likely that a guy will attempt reconcilation before a woman.
I think a woman will be more likely to be sad but remain awaiting a call or indication from the guy about wanting to return to togetherness.
thanks
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Please help! How do i put a spark back into my relationship with my girlfriend of 2 yrs and 6 months?
I need to help to put the spark back into my relationship with my girlfriend. Please I need ideas, romance ideas, well basically any idea. Please help me I really do care about her a lot (when I mean a lot I mean a lot) and I don’t want to loose her.
We share a very similar story. Two days ago I broke up with the guy I dated for 2 years and 9 months. When our relationship hit 2 years and 6 months (just like yours) he told me he lost the spark while one month earlier we started to talk about our wedding. We spent a lot of time together, talked for hours every night, and even he admitted it we’re very compatible. We cooked together, had a lot of fun both privately and with our mutual friends, but apparently it’s not enough. After he told me he lost the spark, we tried to work on our relationship, but I guess I have to put a limit as to when enough is enough. He’s the one with the “losing the spark” issue, but he never initiated the talk about the subject. He’s moody and kind of emotional (not excessive), while I am a stable type. Along our relationship he’s improved a lot in term of moodiness and emotion. He’s very sweet, our friends said we looked like really care about each other, but apparently it’s not the same below the surface. We rarely fought, my nature is I can’t say much when I am angry. After we calmed down we talked and tried to resolve our issues. But again, maybe our relationship was too stable for him so he sought after the mood swing. After his terrible first love which ended almost a decade ago, I was his longest relationship. His other relationships ended only in months because he fought a lot with his exes. My message is, having our partner loses the spark towards us always puts us in a more difficult position compared to theirs as it makes us feel insecure, unworthy, and unsexy. I think this issue goes deeper than merely sharing romantic moments. Yes, they help, but they don’t cure. The most important thing is that BOTH have to have genuine intention to make the relationship work and take the consequence of that intention, such as setting up a period of time to commit and focus on the relationship without looking for new potentials. Determine the cut off point. Find the root of the problem. If after that cut off point the relationship doesn’t improve, then BOTH may wish each other good luck and start to look for new relationships. But BOTH have to commit in that period. Otherwise, it’s not gonna work and you’re gonna just waste your time and energy. Be prepared, it’s very tiring. But if you make it, it’s really rewarding. Most married people have to face the same condition, if you succeed, chances are you will know how to handle this issue in your marriage which will give both of you a big confidence to go on the next level.
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How to get my ex who is dating another guy to come back to me?
My ex girlfriend and i broke up about 1 month and a half ago. Recently she started dating this other guy and she always tells me how much she likes him and how perfect he is and i agree. But today when i was sitting in class she started playing footsie with me while her boyfriend was right next to her. I really miss her and was wondering a way i could get her back. I still love her and i wont move on. Help me please
i think she’s trying to make you jealous when she says he’s perfect, it seems a bit obvious, i think she just wants to have your touch a bit by playing footsie with you
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How do i get back together with my girlfriend?
My girlfriend of a month told me the other day that things weren’t going so good with us. She said i didn’t talk to or connect with her friends as much as she hoped i would. But i still want to be with her and she never said she didn’t like me anymore. How can i get her back?
Make her miss you. Do this by cutting off contact for a while. She will wonder what has happened to you and question whether or not she did the right thing. Now if you do have to stay in contact with her don’t be rude. Be polite but short with her indicating that you are ok without her and that you don’t need her. She will see you as a mature and confident guy if you act like this. Do not constantly praise her and tell her you love her. You will look weak and desperate. Give her some space and time and after a month or so if you still want this girl then reconnect. Call her and just do a simple lunch or whatever. You want her to want you back and not have to beg for her to come to you. Good luck. It can and has worked out for many many couples.
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Is my ex over me already or does she want to be friends in hope we may get back? ?
broke up with my long term girlfriend almost 3 months ago. We were deeply in love and cared for each other very much. Unfortunately my girlfriend had a lot of trust issues, baggage and confidence problems stemming from her past. She was cheated on by her lesbian girlfriend whom she loved…who cheated on her with a man…and then two timed by another girlfriend she really liked…and then she was also disowned for a while by her parents when she came out. So as a result, she is quite messed up. She always loved me and was kind…but when we got deep..she started to get insecure..and her fears of being rejected crept in. She started lying to me and exaggerating her sex past. She started off lying about her sex past with men..to apparently relate to me ( I am bi)..which she later admitted was stupid. And then she started upping her sexual partner number and things she did with past partners to sound adventurous and experienced ‘in case I may lose interest in her once our honeymoon period was over’
besides being confused and angry, i was also baffled why she would lie about her past after 2 years of being together. Why she would need to make her past sex life sound good..when our sex life already was good.
to her, she said it was too good to be true. So maybe she thought it would crumble, like everything good had- in her past.
Anyway, unfortunately i started not trusting her, questioned everything..she grew tired even though she knew it was her fault for lying! we both started fighting too much…because trust was broken.
But i still loved her. She lost energy…as did I. But she started having mild depression…feeling guilty ..not understanding her behaviour…she became exhausted. And lost interest in us. Many times I told her good bye.
But she cried and almost begged and i took her back..thinking i could believe in her again.
Anyway, 3 months ago she said she wanted out.She felt she had lost energy and felt it was not working. The argument took its toll…and she fell out of love. BUT still loved and cared for me. Weird concept.
She also said she hopes we can ‘become good friends soon as we shared a lot and were best friends and close”. I saw this as very dodgy! and a nice let down. But she also added that we need to become friends again she hopes…and see where that takes us. And if it leads somewhere..then she is open to it. But can’t promise anything.
i requested distance and she agreed
we both went overseas on our own trips recently…and we communicated briefly on email (friendly).
anyway we started texting again. I told her I regret losing the one person I truly cared about. And she told me she doesn’t know what to say, but then says she “does miss me”
i asked her what she misses…and she said the “emotional and physical intimacy we had in the first 2 years, before we started arguing. That was something very special”
anyway…she really wants to rebuild my trust and keen to become friends again considering that was broken
i asked her why now she is wanting to do this when she had that time to before…and she said that she had problems then and was exhausted. She also said she is working on herself and did a lot of soul searching.
Anyway, she does return my text messages very quickly and emails as well…are almost ultra friendly.
i am being very cautious ..because i don’t know what her intentions are.
I understand if we were to ever reconcile, we need to become friends again first. Cos how can u be lovers if u can’t be friends? and rebuild trust. but, do you think she still has feelings for me?
if an ex said to you, after 2 1/2 months that they missed u? and they said they were working on themselves etc and wanted to build your trust again…what would u think? is she over me already only after 3 months?
i do still love her. I just don’t want to be mislead
Many of the problems you may be facing could be just the tip of the iceberg
on what is really happening in your marriage. I dont mean to scare you but
many problems when they either first show up or if they keep reoccurring
could be just whats showing from a larger problem that either you or your
spouse cannot even see. One of the only things you can do to help is to talk
honestly and openly with each other in the marriage. If things become more
serious more serious options need to be looked at as possibilities.
Love is a choice that is made everyday when you wake up and every night when
you go to sleep. Some days you may not feel the original feeling but love
isnt a feeling or an emotion. Its an action a verb. Falling out of love may
just mean you need to spice things up a little or that you were never in
love in the first place. Don’t just get out of a marriage just because you
don’t think you like the person anymore.
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How can I win back my ex?
I’m going out on friday night and my ex wil be there,and I want to win him back….Any make-up tips or tips in general?I think I’ll be wearing skinny jeans,and stilettos…and a light top?
im in the same boat this weekend too. Your outfit sounds nyc, i would say if your going for a light top and im assumin your jeans will be black go for a dark smoky eye makeup the mysterious look, blush on the cheekbones and maybe a neutral shiny gloss, try not to look like youve tried too hard even if you have other wise your plan will be busted, good luck x
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how do i cope with a long term relationship break up?
My boyfriend is feeling confused about his life at the moment, whether he should move back to where he was when he was a child or to stay here and start fresh, either way would end the relationship. He said he doesn’t love as much anymore and one part of him wants to stay with me and the other wants to go out and be a lad. What shall i do and how shall i feel, annoyed or upset? please help me
For some obvious reasons(whatever that may be.)whatever he decides anyway would end your relationship. It’s quite upsetting, but you should be thankful that at an early stage of your relationship., you could see where your relationship going..in my opinion, he’s not ready to any serious commitment. If he want’s to go out and be a lad, let him be..don’t even try to beg him, if he loves you 100% he shouldn’t have any second thoughts in the first place..sometimes, men are just too polite to actually end-up a relationship, and they come up with this different excuses..(to give women some hints) So just set him free, if he’ll comes back, then maybe it was meant to be..How to cope with it? just focus on yourself, and learn how to love yourself first before others.
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How can I win my ex back?
Basically short story is that we went to college together and it was great when we both went there. I moved to do my internship and we broke up because it wasn’t working very well. I’ve graduated and moved back home and he’s graduating this year and thinking about going to grad school where I live. The school has one of the best programs and he knows that and he is interested, but does anyone have any ideas on how to win him back and make him even more interested in going to grad school here?
You say you broke up because it wasn’t working very well. Try to remember what did not work. What did he not like on you?
Also try to remember how it was when you started to go out with each other. What did he like on you, what did you both enjoy doing?
Visualize both of you being together again, feel the love and the appreciation. Imaging being in a happy relationship with him. Feel and believe that this will happen.
Now contact him and get him to do some fun stuff with you - ‘just as friends’. Don’t put any pressure, have fun and enjoy what happens.
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Ways to know if my ex girlfriend still loves me and wants to get back together?
Don’t give up hope, and don’t listen to anyone who tells you to move on or just forget about her - you can get her back!
Here’s a page where you can find a guide that will really help:
The main thing is not to give up - if you really want her back, you can do it.
Good luck!
SJ
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Have you ever won an ex back or changed your mind about an ex?
I realize that most people who break up with someone stay broken up permanently, but there are always exceptions to that rule.
So, if you’ve ever won them back, how did you do it? Why did you break up in the 1st place? How long were you dating the other person before the 1st break-up?
If you’ve ever broken up w/someone and then changed your mind, what specific event caused you to do so? Why did you break up w/them in the 1st place?
There is definitely truth to the saying “exes are exes for a reason”. My first ex and I were discussing marriage and I realized suddenly that even though I loved him, the life I saw with him was not one that I wanted. Needless to say we broke up and got back together many times over a 5 year period. At some point you just have to realize that it is not working and not going to. I’m glad I did.
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