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Is there truly an effective way to get your ex-girlfriend back?
With all the books and information on the internet, is there truly an effective way someone can get there ex-girlfriend back? Only true answers, please no move or the past is past. Thanks.
Scott is right about all women being different…
However, there are definitely techniques you can use that work to “attract” your ex girlfriend back to you, such as, how to act, when and how to make contact, avoiding critical mistakes, etc.
For men wanting to win a women back, you must learn how to attract her back to you. Here are some tips:
* Never EVER act or sound desperate and needy. Women will view this as a sign of weakness – and it can ruin your chances of getting her back.
* Even if you have to fake it at first, be easy-going and happy when you talk to her.
* Be confident & make sure she see’s you as a successful guy who is on a path to a making a better life for himself – despite what happens between the two of you.
* Be aloof, but do not play hard to get. Don’t always be immediately available for her – women love a hint of mystery in men. Making her wonder what you’ve been up to is very powerful!
* Never rush into getting back together to soon. For example, if your ex girlfriend calls you upset, crying, and says she misses you and wants to see you, what would you do?
If your answer would be to agree with her and jump into your car to go see her… then please check out this video showing why this would be a critical mistake.
Video on “Premature Reconciliation”
The video explains EXACTLY why acting on one weak moment (even if it’s your ex who’s asking) can kill any chances of reuniting.
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Please help! How do i put a spark back into my relationship with my girlfriend of 2 yrs and 6 months?
I need to help to put the spark back into my relationship with my girlfriend. Please I need ideas, romance ideas, well basically any idea. Please help me I really do care about her a lot (when I mean a lot I mean a lot) and I don’t want to loose her.
We share a very similar story. Two days ago I broke up with the guy I dated for 2 years and 9 months. When our relationship hit 2 years and 6 months (just like yours) he told me he lost the spark while one month earlier we started to talk about our wedding. We spent a lot of time together, talked for hours every night, and even he admitted it we’re very compatible. We cooked together, had a lot of fun both privately and with our mutual friends, but apparently it’s not enough. After he told me he lost the spark, we tried to work on our relationship, but I guess I have to put a limit as to when enough is enough. He’s the one with the “losing the spark” issue, but he never initiated the talk about the subject. He’s moody and kind of emotional (not excessive), while I am a stable type. Along our relationship he’s improved a lot in term of moodiness and emotion. He’s very sweet, our friends said we looked like really care about each other, but apparently it’s not the same below the surface. We rarely fought, my nature is I can’t say much when I am angry. After we calmed down we talked and tried to resolve our issues. But again, maybe our relationship was too stable for him so he sought after the mood swing. After his terrible first love which ended almost a decade ago, I was his longest relationship. His other relationships ended only in months because he fought a lot with his exes. My message is, having our partner loses the spark towards us always puts us in a more difficult position compared to theirs as it makes us feel insecure, unworthy, and unsexy. I think this issue goes deeper than merely sharing romantic moments. Yes, they help, but they don’t cure. The most important thing is that BOTH have to have genuine intention to make the relationship work and take the consequence of that intention, such as setting up a period of time to commit and focus on the relationship without looking for new potentials. Determine the cut off point. Find the root of the problem. If after that cut off point the relationship doesn’t improve, then BOTH may wish each other good luck and start to look for new relationships. But BOTH have to commit in that period. Otherwise, it’s not gonna work and you’re gonna just waste your time and energy. Be prepared, it’s very tiring. But if you make it, it’s really rewarding. Most married people have to face the same condition, if you succeed, chances are you will know how to handle this issue in your marriage which will give both of you a big confidence to go on the next level.
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How do i get back together with my girlfriend?
My girlfriend of a month told me the other day that things weren’t going so good with us. She said i didn’t talk to or connect with her friends as much as she hoped i would. But i still want to be with her and she never said she didn’t like me anymore. How can i get her back?
Make her miss you. Do this by cutting off contact for a while. She will wonder what has happened to you and question whether or not she did the right thing. Now if you do have to stay in contact with her don’t be rude. Be polite but short with her indicating that you are ok without her and that you don’t need her. She will see you as a mature and confident guy if you act like this. Do not constantly praise her and tell her you love her. You will look weak and desperate. Give her some space and time and after a month or so if you still want this girl then reconnect. Call her and just do a simple lunch or whatever. You want her to want you back and not have to beg for her to come to you. Good luck. It can and has worked out for many many couples.
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Fighting to get my girlfriend back?
OK, i’m writing a letter to my girlfriends parents. About a month ago, they made us break up cause they found out we had sex. So now, i’m writing a letter to them apologizing to them and asking for a second chance. This girl is the only one i want to be with, everything about her fits me perfectly. So i’m gonna do everything i can to try and get her back.
What i need help with is how i should write this letter. What should i put in it that will really show them i’m truly sorry fro everything and that i really do wanna show them i care and love their daughter? I’ve already almost finished it, i just need to know what i should put in it to show i want to be with her and that i dont care about any of the fun stuff like sex. Please, i really want her back. ]:
I am writing to apologize for my actions. I never wanted to lose _________. When you took her away and made us break up, you took apart of me too. I want to inform you that my actions were wrong but I really love __________. I do not want you to think that I am trying to take advantage of her because I really care for her.I would really like another chance.
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How to get your girlfriend back?
My girlfriend and i got in a fight the other day and broke up, she thinks it is the best thing for us right now, but i cant deal with it. I am heart broken head over heels in love with her and i am a mess. im old enough to know that it was real and that it could have worked out and i know i need to move on, but i cant, not until i know it cant ever work, so please tell me how to get her back into my arms.
Maybe you should sit her down and talk about the things you guys had problems with and how you can avoid these if you guys give it another shot. tell her it wont be easy but its worth a try. 
i hope this helped and good luck !!
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What are some ways to get an old girlfriend back?
Hi. I have been broken up with this girl for about 2 years. She now has a bf, so i really need help or tips on some way to go about getting her back. anything will help
Just be nice to her and if it was meant to be she will come back to you…
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What should i do to get my girlfriend back?
I need something that i can get my gf for valentines day like should i write a note? or buy her a gift she says she doesnt like baught gifts she says she likes homemade.. what do i do?
we broke up because there was a rumor i was going to break up with her but i wasnt and so she decided to break up with me instead of me breaking up with her.
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What are the chances of getting back with an ex girlfriend after 18 years apart?
An old flame came back on to the scene recently. It was not a nice breakup and I had not heard from her for years. She now says she is leaving her husband and all that stuff. Am I nutty to even consider this woman
I think she seems a little nutty…..I would break it off with her right away. If she leaves her husband, I would make sure it is not just because she wants to get back with you. If she does it to him, there is a big chance she would do the same thing to you.
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How do I get an ex girlfriend to get back with me?
We broke up cuz her brother is a snitch.
Here is the secret. Leave her alone. No calling, no stalking, no random gifts. Act like you do not need her in your life, even if you feel like you do. Go out and live your life without her for a while. In time she may end up calling you up and then you can take it from there. If she doesn’t call after a month or two of no contact you can try and give her a call. Try to get her to have a simple short coffee or lunch get together with you. At this get together don’t mention a thing about getting back together. If she broke up with you…you need her to want to get back with you, she already knows you want her back. Give it time and take it slow. If it is meant to be then it will happen. Just don’t chase her around forever or you will be miserable.
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What do i do about my ex-girlfriend moving back with her babies’ daddy?
Ok, this is not as ghetto as it sounds. Basically, i met this amazing girl one night playing pool. We really hit it off and we were together until last week about 2 and a half months. Everything was fabulous and we really clicked well. The dilemma is that she has a 2 year old daughter and she just broke up with the babies father 2 months before she met me. They have joint custody on a week by week basis so she obviously has to see him. I am a guy with no kids, 24, doin ok for myself. Anyhow, just to paint a picture, i guess she had moved into an efficiency to get away from her ex and try to start her new life without him when i first met her. They had been togather for three years and they have broke up like 4 times during the relationship already. So she told me she was ready to move on, so we became official. After that, we spent most of our time together when we weren’t working, and i would keep her company as well on the weeks she had her daughter. I began staying the night at her house alot, and she also had her little brother staying with her who slept in the same living area as her, seeing how she was in an efficiency, it was just like a big living room. She finally upgraded to a different unit next door so we could have our own privacy, own room etc,. Well this place had some characters that lived there as well and they were all like drung attics and things, not so good of an atmosphere. Anyhow one day, i woke up and heard my girlfriend arguing with someone outside. It was one of the low lifes that lived there, and i guess he had been banging on her door while we were sleeping trying to look for her brother. Anyhow he got mouthy and i ran out cuz nobody is gonna talk to shit to my girl…..anyhow i confronted him, shouted something caveman at him and he walked away. Well, i had been fed up with the shit that she had to put up with living there as a mother just working to survive, so i thought what the hell, i was looking into renting out this nice house closer to my work anyhow, and my friend was kinda flaking who was gonna move in anyway, so i asked if she might be interested because she would save money on what she was paying at the roach motel anyhow, so i took her and her little brother to see the house. She was immediatly happy and things just went better from there. Here is where it gets weird. Everything is still going good and it was two days before we put the money up to move in. She came to see me at work like usual, and we went for lunch and just browsed some other places, but everything was as great as it always was. She mentioned something about her babies father hearing about her moving in with me and threatening to take her car away, which i guess was in his name, some 94 lexus, nothing special, paid off , but i guess he was the primary lean holder on the title. Well i have a truck and i wouldn’t mind helping but of course i hope it wouldn’t come to that, either way, nothing i couldn’t handle. So that same day she takes me back to work after lunch, same old same, “so your gonna come over after work and spend the night tonight right?” Of course it was what the routine was lately so of course i said yes and i’ll see you later. Well, i came over later on when she got home from work, and i could tell something was wrong she immediatley became someone different. She sat down said we needed to talk, and began to tell me that she needed some space and can’t commit right now. I AM TELLING YOU THAT THINGS WERE GREAT BETWEEN US THIS WHOLE TIME. It was like unexpected, but i decided to give her a day or two, i hugged and kissed her then left. I didn’t know this was the last time that i would see the girl. The next day her brother came up to my work with some of my stuff like my xbox and one of my shirts with a note from her. The note said she was totally into me and everything we had was true, but she is in conflict with herself and her life. It was like i’ll miss you see you down the road type thing maybe. Anyhow, i was pretty upset and sad, but i gave her a couple days and went back to her place one night when i couldn’t take it anymore. She was GONE. The property manager said she had moved out the night before with the help of her ex-boyfriend/babies dad. I finally got a call from her a couple days later and she had moved back with this guy out of nowhere! She stated her strong feelings for me, but she had to do what was best for her daughter right now, she said she may be making a mistake because of what we had, but she said she needed to at least give it one more try with 100 percent of her self, so if it didn’t work out she could of least said she tried her best. She is 23, very beautiful, she had explained when i first met her that she didn’t even want to have the kid in the first place but she was down in florida all by herself, and she was from ohio. She said the only thing close to family down here was her ex’s family and they were all convincing her to have the kid and telling her how bad she would be if she wouldn’t. I believe that the ex and his family have alot to do as far a brainwashing this girl. The guy is like 30, i mean common, what are trying to seal your future by getting a beautiful girl pregnant when she isn’t even sure. Way to care about someones life. Anyhow, i may sound crazy, but it was just so real that i can’t help but be hurt and want to fight for this girl, but i don’t want to hurt her situation. It was just so sudden and i haven’t had feelings for another girl since my last relationship which was over a year and a half ago. What would you do? What should i do?
WAY TOO LONG to read, dude!
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