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What you should know about a relationship break up…
In a relationship break up, there is usually more than just you and your ex who are affected. Most of the time, your friends are also affected… sometimes they have to choose sides and friendships are lost. If you’re married, your relatives are also affected… more so if you already have children.
Many families today are disfunctional because couples choose the easy way out, rather than trying to mend or try saving marriage or relationship.
Having a clear mind is essential to making the final decision of breaking up or patching up. Couples must always consider every angle of the situation… who’s affected, why the relationship has turned sour, is love still present, is pressure from work or bills the culprit, etc. Being able to identify these factors is necessary if you want to make the right decision.
I believe that relationships should be mended as much as possible… but not necessarily at all costs. If there is physical abuse present then preventing a relationship break up might not be the best thing to do. But no matter what the situation is, it’s your call which route you want to take.
Some have tried to take on the problem head on… in most cases, the attempt will be futile. Without a clear head and a calm disposition, discussing why the relationship ended with your ex will only turn into a heated discussion. A respite is necessary for both of you to clear your heads and analyze the situation carefully.
Once the anger has passed, analyze the situation by thinking of what the relationship was like before the break up… then try to remember how the relationship was like in the beginning. List down the good and awful things that you remember and see if the relationship is beyond repair or not. This period is the most important one of all, as it will serve as your foundation in formulating a plan of action… whether it be to save the marriage / win back ex or to end the relationship.
In any case, bear in mind that the action you are about to take will affect more than just you and your ex. So, I urge you to consider every angle carefully as if your life depended on it. I do hope that you and your ex will finally come to terms and work with each other to prevent the relationship break up.
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In a long term relationship break up then marry someone within months?
Is it just me or what?…
every time i hear of people breaking up after being with someone for years and marrying someone new right away. Why do people do that?
but they get married! thats a big deal! … i could see dating .. hooking up. but my goodness married. is it like they realized what they wanted?
that’s what happened to me when I started dating my wife. I had been with someone for over 2 years, we broke up, and I started dating my wife. 6 months later we were married. I think it’s that you get out of what you thought was “the relationship”, and wind up finding who you’re meant to be with, because you’re not looking
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Why do we break a relationship up when at the end they are all the same and require much work?
You are right all relationships require work, but not all of them are equal. Some people fit better together and as a result don’t often find themselves ‘working’ it out, but ‘living’ through it . I have been through 3 serious relationships that did not work out but they have all been for different reasons.
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Would you break up a relationship because of soccer?
You’re both fans of totally different teams.
How would you handle it?
Not at all. I figure that a few more stars and she will have to come to grips with the fact that Italy rules and France pales in comparison when they still have 1.
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Who moves on faster the man or woman from a long-term relationship break up?
From observing my friends who are gettting divorced and breaking up:
It seems that women get over the break up faster at the beginning and then hard on them later on.
For the male, it’s hard at the beginning, but then they get over it, and then easy later on.
Agree? Disagree?
I agree, a woman can get all caught up in the “I’m not taking his sh*t anymore”, then later on she can think, “maybe I wasn’t thinking clearly at the time..maybe we could’ve worked it out”. And a guy is probably going to think about it more clearly from the beginning. Wondering why it failed, where it went wrong, then he accepts it and moves on. Women tend to think “what if…”, thats when its harder to move on.
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How do you rebuild a relationship after a break-up?
How do you rebuild a relationship after a break-up? Boyfriend and I are giving our relationship another chance. Despite of our past issues we realized that we really loved each other. We have decided to work on our issues together instead of doing it apart…but what steps should be taken to ensure that this is for the long haul. I’m happy that we are giving it another try but I feel so weird. I’m thinking about taking things slow because we did rush into the relationship when we first started dating. Anybody else experienced this and are now content and happy with the choice they made. Even if you haven’t I would like some insight.
You can’t control what happens. Not now, or for the future. You can only control your own thoughts and feelings (and that’s hard enough to do without worrying about holding onto a relationship).
I guess taking it slow is wise. But I don’t believe that you can prepare for “the long haul,” whatever that is. There may not BE a long haul. Everything is one day at a time.
Love, Jack
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What causes people in a loving relationship to break up?
Like for couples that really loved each other and were together for like a year or longer what causes them to break up do they just get tired of eachother or what???
A year is not long in a loving relation ship… you can’t really say it was a loving relationship till it’s been 5 or more years. The first year or two is just to find out if you can be together. So if youre asking about why couples break up after a year, then I’d say it’s because they figured out something about the other person that they weren’t willing to live with.
We all have our faults, but are you willing to live with the other person’s faults even if they don’t change?
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Who do u think is more able to establish another relationship after break up? A gal or a guy?
I know its difficult for anyone to establish a new relationship after a break up. but we got to move on, we just don want become stagnant. who do u think can overcome or handle this crisis better? a gal or a guy?
Pls give star so that i can have more opinion about this.
thanks for your opinions.
This is an interesting question!
In my experience the level of affection and desire may be equal but I think it’s more likely that a guy will attempt reconcilation before a woman.
I think a woman will be more likely to be sad but remain awaiting a call or indication from the guy about wanting to return to togetherness.
thanks
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how do i cope with a long term relationship break up?
My boyfriend is feeling confused about his life at the moment, whether he should move back to where he was when he was a child or to stay here and start fresh, either way would end the relationship. He said he doesn’t love as much anymore and one part of him wants to stay with me and the other wants to go out and be a lad. What shall i do and how shall i feel, annoyed or upset? please help me
For some obvious reasons(whatever that may be.)whatever he decides anyway would end your relationship. It’s quite upsetting, but you should be thankful that at an early stage of your relationship., you could see where your relationship going..in my opinion, he’s not ready to any serious commitment. If he want’s to go out and be a lad, let him be..don’t even try to beg him, if he loves you 100% he shouldn’t have any second thoughts in the first place..sometimes, men are just too polite to actually end-up a relationship, and they come up with this different excuses..(to give women some hints) So just set him free, if he’ll comes back, then maybe it was meant to be..How to cope with it? just focus on yourself, and learn how to love yourself first before others.
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How long should I wait after a break up to start another relationship?
i just broke up with my long distance gf of 1 year because i met someone that i think is “the one”. we both like each other but she seems really hesitant b/c i just got out of relationship. should i just chill for awhile?
The only advice I can give you is that when the time is right you will know.
Long distance relationships rarely workout. This new girl is probably only hesitant because she fears that you broke up with your last girlfriend because you met someone else and possibly fears that you may do something similar to her if something better comes along.
It might be an idea to explain your feelings to her and why you did what you did. Try and reassure her that your break up was not done on a whim and that your feelings for her are true.
It maybe that she wants to take it steady for sometime. All you can do is be patient which should be easy if she truly is “the one”
Good luck
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