Comments for Win Back Ex Blog http://www.winbackexblog.com Tips and Articles to Win Back Ex Wed, 07 Jan 2009 17:47:39 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 Comment on Relationship Break Up by David Allen http://www.winbackexblog.com/relationship-break-up/relationship-break-up#comment-653 David Allen Sat, 18 Oct 2008 04:48:54 +0000 http://www.winbackexblog.com/relationship-break-up/relationship-break-up#comment-653 Breaking up is a hard thing for anyone, especially if it's a relationship that lasted more than 2 years. Overcoming an ex is easier said than done but getting back with your ex is actually easier than it sounds. For more information on how to get back with your ex visit: http://www.squidoo.com/winexback Breaking up is a hard thing for anyone, especially if it’s a relationship that lasted more than 2 years. Overcoming an ex is easier said than done but getting back with your ex is actually easier than it sounds. For more information on how to get back with your ex visit:

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]]> Comment on How long did it take for you to get over your ex? by Miss H http://www.winbackexblog.com/how-to-get-ex-back/how-long-did-it-take-for-you-to-get-over-your-ex#comment-489 Miss H Tue, 30 Sep 2008 12:14:38 +0000 http://www.winbackexblog.com/how-to-get-ex-back/how-long-did-it-take-for-you-to-get-over-your-ex#comment-489 I was with my boyfriend for five years and I realised that that I was no longer in love with him. I was the one who ended the relationship and still 8 months down the line im not over him. I believe that I have made the right decision but it doesnt make it any easier. We have no contact and I really believe thats the only way we can both move on. I had a brief rebound but I have not been with any guys since. Im taking this time to make myself happy! I was with my boyfriend for five years and I realised that that I was no longer in love with him. I was the one who ended the relationship and still 8 months down the line im not over him. I believe that I have made the right decision but it doesnt make it any easier. We have no contact and I really believe thats the only way we can both move on. I had a brief rebound but I have not been with any guys since. Im taking this time to make myself happy!

]]> Comment on From experience how long has it taken for people to get over their ex’s? by ninebadthings http://www.winbackexblog.com/how-to-get-ex-back/from-experience-how-long-has-it-taken-for-people-to-get-over-their-exs#comment-399 ninebadthings Sat, 13 Sep 2008 23:49:46 +0000 http://www.winbackexblog.com/how-to-get-ex-back/from-experience-how-long-has-it-taken-for-people-to-get-over-their-exs#comment-399 Every person and every relationship is different. A girl drove a wooden stake through my heart 25 years ago and it still hurts. Other girls, you are just glad to see them go.<br><b>References : </b><br> Every person and every relationship is different. A girl drove a wooden stake through my heart 25 years ago and it still hurts. Other girls, you are just glad to see them go.
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]]> Comment on From experience how long has it taken for people to get over their ex’s? by It'sCALLIE!™ http://www.winbackexblog.com/how-to-get-ex-back/from-experience-how-long-has-it-taken-for-people-to-get-over-their-exs#comment-398 It'sCALLIE!™ Sat, 13 Sep 2008 23:49:44 +0000 http://www.winbackexblog.com/how-to-get-ex-back/from-experience-how-long-has-it-taken-for-people-to-get-over-their-exs#comment-398 It depends on many factors. However, as somewhat of an old adage, I've heard that it takes the length of time that constitutes half of the duration of the relationship. For example, a one year relationships takes 6 months before you fully "move on." Obviously, this isn't anything truly scientific or biological and nothing that's been substantially proven on a psychological level. Just an observation of typical romantic patterns. The guy below me also made a good point. There are break ups that never fully heal when you truly and deeply loved the other person. My grandmother is 83 and still feels the heartache from an ex 40 years ago who broke her heart.<br><b>References : </b><br> It depends on many factors.

However, as somewhat of an old adage, I've heard that it takes the length of time that constitutes half of the duration of the relationship. For example, a one year relationships takes 6 months before you fully "move on." Obviously, this isn't anything truly scientific or biological and nothing that's been substantially proven on a psychological level. Just an observation of typical romantic patterns.

The guy below me also made a good point. There are break ups that never fully heal when you truly and deeply loved the other person. My grandmother is 83 and still feels the heartache from an ex 40 years ago who broke her heart.
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]]> Comment on From experience how long has it taken for people to get over their ex’s? by Ann P http://www.winbackexblog.com/how-to-get-ex-back/from-experience-how-long-has-it-taken-for-people-to-get-over-their-exs#comment-397 Ann P Sat, 13 Sep 2008 23:48:06 +0000 http://www.winbackexblog.com/how-to-get-ex-back/from-experience-how-long-has-it-taken-for-people-to-get-over-their-exs#comment-397 well its been 0.3 months and im not over him yet it varies<br><b>References : </b><br> well its been 0.3 months and im not over him yet it varies
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]]> Comment on From experience how long has it taken for people to get over their ex’s? by nery http://www.winbackexblog.com/how-to-get-ex-back/from-experience-how-long-has-it-taken-for-people-to-get-over-their-exs#comment-396 nery Sat, 13 Sep 2008 23:45:26 +0000 http://www.winbackexblog.com/how-to-get-ex-back/from-experience-how-long-has-it-taken-for-people-to-get-over-their-exs#comment-396 well...it took me like 9 months to tell you the truth but maybe it was because i really liked him but i regret it sooooo much!!<br><b>References : </b><br>myself well…it took me like 9 months to tell you the truth but maybe it was because i really liked him but i regret it sooooo much!!
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]]> Comment on How can I win my ex back? by advantageforyou11 http://www.winbackexblog.com/win-back-ex/how-can-i-win-my-ex-back#comment-464 advantageforyou11 Sat, 13 Sep 2008 14:52:49 +0000 http://www.winbackexblog.com/win-back-ex/how-can-i-win-my-ex-back#comment-464 You say you broke up because it wasn't working very well. Try to remember what did not work. What did he not like on you? Also try to remember how it was when you started to go out with each other. What did he like on you, what did you both enjoy doing? Visualize both of you being together again, feel the love and the appreciation. Imaging being in a happy relationship with him. Feel and believe that this will happen. Now contact him and get him to do some fun stuff with you - 'just as friends'. Don't put any pressure, have fun and enjoy what happens. <br><b>References : </b><br>http://www.howtogetbackatyourex.com You say you broke up because it wasn’t working very well. Try to remember what did not work. What did he not like on you?

Also try to remember how it was when you started to go out with each other. What did he like on you, what did you both enjoy doing?

Visualize both of you being together again, feel the love and the appreciation. Imaging being in a happy relationship with him. Feel and believe that this will happen.

Now contact him and get him to do some fun stuff with you - ‘just as friends’. Don’t put any pressure, have fun and enjoy what happens.

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]]> Comment on How long did it take for you to get over your ex? by servant4god@sbcglobal.net http://www.winbackexblog.com/how-to-get-ex-back/how-long-did-it-take-for-you-to-get-over-your-ex#comment-350 servant4god@sbcglobal.net Sat, 13 Sep 2008 14:36:07 +0000 http://www.winbackexblog.com/how-to-get-ex-back/how-long-did-it-take-for-you-to-get-over-your-ex#comment-350 Forgive, and of course this is impossible till one has given thier heart to Christ. Forgiveness is the essential part of moving - on, to where healing takes place, and understanding is gained. We all make mistakes, and some are out of our control, but we should take blame for the one's we do, and even the one's we are not to blame for. Your love for that person should continue even after "the break-up". After these things have taken place in your heart, and then your life, perhaps then you can be friends, who become unseperable. First know Christ,as your Savior I hope this has helped.<br><b>References : </b><br> Forgive, and of course this is impossible till one has given thier heart to Christ.

Forgiveness is the essential part of moving - on, to where healing takes place, and understanding is gained.

We all make mistakes, and some are out of our control, but we should take blame for the one’s we do, and even the one’s we are not to blame for.

Your love for that person should continue even after “the break-up”.

After these things have taken place in your heart, and then your life, perhaps then you can be friends, who become unseperable.

First know Christ,as your Savior

I hope this has helped.
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]]> Comment on How long did it take for you to get over your ex? by Ruthie http://www.winbackexblog.com/how-to-get-ex-back/how-long-did-it-take-for-you-to-get-over-your-ex#comment-349 Ruthie Sat, 13 Sep 2008 14:20:59 +0000 http://www.winbackexblog.com/how-to-get-ex-back/how-long-did-it-take-for-you-to-get-over-your-ex#comment-349 I'm so sorry to hear about your break up! First of all, being friends is not going to make things better it will only make things worse. My ex and I tried to stay friends for about 6 months after we broke up from our 4 year relationship and the only thing that happened in result was worse pain, more bitterness, and almost to the point of hatred of each other. We didn't talk to each other for about 8 months after that, the only reason we recently got back in contact was because of a tragedy that had happened in his family. His family was always so kind to me that I felt I owed it to them to pay my respects and to do that I had to contact him. We're not really 'friends' per say but we e-mail every 4 or 5 days a couple sentences just to keep up with each other. I'm not over him, but I'm getting there. And being in contact with him now doesn't remind me of our old times like it did once when we tried to be friends right after the break up. Healing is something you have to do on your own, and the process is different for everyone. For me it was solitude, I didn't go out much, I picked up some new hobbies that didn't require me to be around people and I slowly but surely became happy with myself again. I'm not completely over him but I'm not in love with him anymore either. Others may say that going out and spending every day with your friends and family is better. Like I said everyone is different. You've got to find what's best for you but what works for everyone is staying busy whether that's friends or picking up a new hobby by yourself or immersing yourself in work. Stay busy. <br><b>References : </b><br> I’m so sorry to hear about your break up! First of all, being friends is not going to make things better it will only make things worse. My ex and I tried to stay friends for about 6 months after we broke up from our 4 year relationship and the only thing that happened in result was worse pain, more bitterness, and almost to the point of hatred of each other. We didn’t talk to each other for about 8 months after that, the only reason we recently got back in contact was because of a tragedy that had happened in his family. His family was always so kind to me that I felt I owed it to them to pay my respects and to do that I had to contact him. We’re not really ‘friends’ per say but we e-mail every 4 or 5 days a couple sentences just to keep up with each other. I’m not over him, but I’m getting there. And being in contact with him now doesn’t remind me of our old times like it did once when we tried to be friends right after the break up. Healing is something you have to do on your own, and the process is different for everyone. For me it was solitude, I didn’t go out much, I picked up some new hobbies that didn’t require me to be around people and I slowly but surely became happy with myself again. I’m not completely over him but I’m not in love with him anymore either. Others may say that going out and spending every day with your friends and family is better. Like I said everyone is different. You’ve got to find what’s best for you but what works for everyone is staying busy whether that’s friends or picking up a new hobby by yourself or immersing yourself in work. Stay busy.
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