My girlfriend of a month told me the other day that things weren’t going so good with us. She said i didn’t talk to or connect with her friends as much as she hoped i would. But i still want to be with her and she never said she didn’t like me anymore. How can i get her back?
Make her miss you. Do this by cutting off contact for a while. She will wonder what has happened to you and question whether or not she did the right thing. Now if you do have to stay in contact with her don’t be rude. Be polite but short with her indicating that you are ok without her and that you don’t need her. She will see you as a mature and confident guy if you act like this. Do not constantly praise her and tell her you love her. You will look weak and desperate. Give her some space and time and after a month or so if you still want this girl then reconnect. Call her and just do a simple lunch or whatever. You want her to want you back and not have to beg for her to come to you. Good luck. It can and has worked out for many many couples.
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September 8th, 2008 at 12:18 pm
try talking to her more, try talking to her friends more. try connecting with them now that yall arent together. maybe she will see that u are trying and will understand that u really do like u and she might give u a second chance.
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September 8th, 2008 at 12:19 pm
Well you could change your personality for her. But it might be too late for that. You were only with her a month. Get a new one & keep in mind the things your old one didnt like.
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September 8th, 2008 at 12:20 pm
OK, you have not even had a relationship a month and you think she is your girlfriend?? Wake up! You barely know the girl. You don’t get her back cause you never had her in the first place. It is obvious you don’t fit into her life, accept that and move on. Get used to it cause you will be doing it many more times.
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September 8th, 2008 at 12:20 pm
if you really really relly like her, jsut try harder at it. try much as you can to connect with her friends and impress them. a girls not gonna date someone who doesnt go well with her friends. so just promise her that you will try harder and see where that gets you.
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September 8th, 2008 at 12:20 pm
Make her miss you. Do this by cutting off contact for a while. She will wonder what has happened to you and question whether or not she did the right thing. Now if you do have to stay in contact with her don’t be rude. Be polite but short with her indicating that you are ok without her and that you don’t need her. She will see you as a mature and confident guy if you act like this. Do not constantly praise her and tell her you love her. You will look weak and desperate. Give her some space and time and after a month or so if you still want this girl then reconnect. Call her and just do a simple lunch or whatever. You want her to want you back and not have to beg for her to come to you. Good luck. It can and has worked out for many many couples.
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September 8th, 2008 at 5:41 pm
The next time you see her,ask her if she wants to hang out with her friends and say your sorry for not connecting to them, but you will try harder.
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