Comments on: How long did it take for you to get over your ex? http://www.winbackexblog.com/how-to-get-ex-back/how-long-did-it-take-for-you-to-get-over-your-ex Tips and Articles to Win Back Ex Fri, 09 Dec 2011 22:23:47 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Miss H http://www.winbackexblog.com/how-to-get-ex-back/how-long-did-it-take-for-you-to-get-over-your-ex/comment-page-1#comment-489 Miss H Tue, 30 Sep 2008 12:14:38 +0000 http://www.winbackexblog.com/how-to-get-ex-back/how-long-did-it-take-for-you-to-get-over-your-ex#comment-489 I was with my boyfriend for five years and I realised that that I was no longer in love with him. I was the one who ended the relationship and still 8 months down the line im not over him. I believe that I have made the right decision but it doesnt make it any easier. We have no contact and I really believe thats the only way we can both move on. I had a brief rebound but I have not been with any guys since. Im taking this time to make myself happy! I was with my boyfriend for five years and I realised that that I was no longer in love with him. I was the one who ended the relationship and still 8 months down the line im not over him. I believe that I have made the right decision but it doesnt make it any easier. We have no contact and I really believe thats the only way we can both move on. I had a brief rebound but I have not been with any guys since. Im taking this time to make myself happy!

]]> By: servant4god@sbcglobal.net http://www.winbackexblog.com/how-to-get-ex-back/how-long-did-it-take-for-you-to-get-over-your-ex/comment-page-1#comment-350 servant4god@sbcglobal.net Sat, 13 Sep 2008 14:36:07 +0000 http://www.winbackexblog.com/how-to-get-ex-back/how-long-did-it-take-for-you-to-get-over-your-ex#comment-350 Forgive, and of course this is impossible till one has given thier heart to Christ. Forgiveness is the essential part of moving - on, to where healing takes place, and understanding is gained. We all make mistakes, and some are out of our control, but we should take blame for the one's we do, and even the one's we are not to blame for. Your love for that person should continue even after "the break-up". After these things have taken place in your heart, and then your life, perhaps then you can be friends, who become unseperable. First know Christ,as your Savior I hope this has helped.<br><b>References : </b><br> Forgive, and of course this is impossible till one has given thier heart to Christ.

Forgiveness is the essential part of moving – on, to where healing takes place, and understanding is gained.

We all make mistakes, and some are out of our control, but we should take blame for the one’s we do, and even the one’s we are not to blame for.

Your love for that person should continue even after “the break-up”.

After these things have taken place in your heart, and then your life, perhaps then you can be friends, who become unseperable.

First know Christ,as your Savior

I hope this has helped.
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]]> By: Ruthie http://www.winbackexblog.com/how-to-get-ex-back/how-long-did-it-take-for-you-to-get-over-your-ex/comment-page-1#comment-349 Ruthie Sat, 13 Sep 2008 14:20:59 +0000 http://www.winbackexblog.com/how-to-get-ex-back/how-long-did-it-take-for-you-to-get-over-your-ex#comment-349 I'm so sorry to hear about your break up! First of all, being friends is not going to make things better it will only make things worse. My ex and I tried to stay friends for about 6 months after we broke up from our 4 year relationship and the only thing that happened in result was worse pain, more bitterness, and almost to the point of hatred of each other. We didn't talk to each other for about 8 months after that, the only reason we recently got back in contact was because of a tragedy that had happened in his family. His family was always so kind to me that I felt I owed it to them to pay my respects and to do that I had to contact him. We're not really 'friends' per say but we e-mail every 4 or 5 days a couple sentences just to keep up with each other. I'm not over him, but I'm getting there. And being in contact with him now doesn't remind me of our old times like it did once when we tried to be friends right after the break up. Healing is something you have to do on your own, and the process is different for everyone. For me it was solitude, I didn't go out much, I picked up some new hobbies that didn't require me to be around people and I slowly but surely became happy with myself again. I'm not completely over him but I'm not in love with him anymore either. Others may say that going out and spending every day with your friends and family is better. Like I said everyone is different. You've got to find what's best for you but what works for everyone is staying busy whether that's friends or picking up a new hobby by yourself or immersing yourself in work. Stay busy. <br><b>References : </b><br> I’m so sorry to hear about your break up! First of all, being friends is not going to make things better it will only make things worse. My ex and I tried to stay friends for about 6 months after we broke up from our 4 year relationship and the only thing that happened in result was worse pain, more bitterness, and almost to the point of hatred of each other. We didn’t talk to each other for about 8 months after that, the only reason we recently got back in contact was because of a tragedy that had happened in his family. His family was always so kind to me that I felt I owed it to them to pay my respects and to do that I had to contact him. We’re not really ‘friends’ per say but we e-mail every 4 or 5 days a couple sentences just to keep up with each other. I’m not over him, but I’m getting there. And being in contact with him now doesn’t remind me of our old times like it did once when we tried to be friends right after the break up. Healing is something you have to do on your own, and the process is different for everyone. For me it was solitude, I didn’t go out much, I picked up some new hobbies that didn’t require me to be around people and I slowly but surely became happy with myself again. I’m not completely over him but I’m not in love with him anymore either. Others may say that going out and spending every day with your friends and family is better. Like I said everyone is different. You’ve got to find what’s best for you but what works for everyone is staying busy whether that’s friends or picking up a new hobby by yourself or immersing yourself in work. Stay busy.
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]]> By: BODHISATTVA http://www.winbackexblog.com/how-to-get-ex-back/how-long-did-it-take-for-you-to-get-over-your-ex/comment-page-1#comment-348 BODHISATTVA Sat, 13 Sep 2008 14:17:11 +0000 http://www.winbackexblog.com/how-to-get-ex-back/how-long-did-it-take-for-you-to-get-over-your-ex#comment-348 SOME SAY THAT YOU SHOULD GO OUT AND DATE::: FORGET IT! YOU HAVE TO WORK ON IT FOR YOURSELF::: DEPENDS ON HOW STRONG YOU ARE! I KNOW A FRIEND OF MINE WAS LEFT BY HIMS GF ABOUT " YEARS AGO::: HE SILL IS A SINGLE::: HE SAYS ´THAT HE WILL NEVER EVER TRUST A GIRL! HOW LONG??? NO IDEA::: BUT I KNOW FOR SURE::: SOME DAY IT WILL BE NO MORE::: EITHER BECAUSE YOU HAVE COMPLETED WITH IT OR YOU GET USED TO IT! NEVER GIVE UP::: THAT WHAT DOSENT KILLS YOU; MAKES YOU:::<br><b>References : </b><br> SOME SAY THAT YOU SHOULD GO OUT AND DATE::: FORGET IT!
YOU HAVE TO WORK ON IT FOR YOURSELF::: DEPENDS ON HOW STRONG YOU ARE!
I KNOW A FRIEND OF MINE WAS LEFT BY HIMS GF ABOUT ” YEARS AGO::: HE SILL IS A SINGLE::: HE SAYS ´THAT HE WILL NEVER EVER TRUST A GIRL!
HOW LONG???
NO IDEA::: BUT I KNOW FOR SURE::: SOME DAY IT WILL BE NO MORE::: EITHER BECAUSE YOU HAVE COMPLETED WITH IT OR YOU GET USED TO IT!
NEVER GIVE UP::: THAT WHAT DOSENT KILLS YOU; MAKES YOU:::
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]]> By: yer_a_buttface http://www.winbackexblog.com/how-to-get-ex-back/how-long-did-it-take-for-you-to-get-over-your-ex/comment-page-1#comment-347 yer_a_buttface Sat, 13 Sep 2008 14:15:16 +0000 http://www.winbackexblog.com/how-to-get-ex-back/how-long-did-it-take-for-you-to-get-over-your-ex#comment-347 marin, i was in a relationship for three years and have two kids and we called it quits 2 months ago and I'm still not over it, I'm sure its gonna take some time but dint beat yer self up over it things will go your way eventually keep yer head up and start looking at what lays ahead of you and the opportunities that await<br><b>References : </b><br> marin,
i was in a relationship for three years and have two kids and we called it quits 2 months ago and I’m still not over it, I’m sure its gonna take some time but dint beat yer self up over it things will go your way eventually keep yer head up and start looking at what lays ahead of you and the opportunities that await
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]]> By: cubanshortyx3 http://www.winbackexblog.com/how-to-get-ex-back/how-long-did-it-take-for-you-to-get-over-your-ex/comment-page-1#comment-346 cubanshortyx3 Sat, 13 Sep 2008 14:14:51 +0000 http://www.winbackexblog.com/how-to-get-ex-back/how-long-did-it-take-for-you-to-get-over-your-ex#comment-346 i dated my boyfriend in april [ first love ] and its september and i still havent fully moved on but its nothing compared to how things were before - its funny how it didnt take him more than a week to move on good luck hun<br><b>References : </b><br> i dated my boyfriend in april [ first love ]
and its september and i still havent fully moved on
but its nothing compared to how things were before

- its funny how it didnt take him more than a week to move on

good luck hun
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]]> By: vicky http://www.winbackexblog.com/how-to-get-ex-back/how-long-did-it-take-for-you-to-get-over-your-ex/comment-page-1#comment-345 vicky Sat, 13 Sep 2008 14:13:21 +0000 http://www.winbackexblog.com/how-to-get-ex-back/how-long-did-it-take-for-you-to-get-over-your-ex#comment-345 i cried for 4 months and i jst told my self that i couldnt cry over him anymore and i just tryd not to think about it and then i was over really fast.<br><b>References : </b><br> i cried for 4 months and i jst told my self that i couldnt cry over him anymore and i just tryd not to think about it and then i was over really fast.
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]]> By: Aatami http://www.winbackexblog.com/how-to-get-ex-back/how-long-did-it-take-for-you-to-get-over-your-ex/comment-page-1#comment-344 Aatami Sat, 13 Sep 2008 14:13:00 +0000 http://www.winbackexblog.com/how-to-get-ex-back/how-long-did-it-take-for-you-to-get-over-your-ex#comment-344 I'm still not over my former love, though we haven't even had a real relationship. And that's been almost two years ago. But it is normal, just live with this pain, live at full and you won't notice how it steps aside. Although I believe that people never really get over something. We just forget, adapt, ignore... <br><b>References : </b><br> I’m still not over my former love, though we haven’t even had a real relationship. And that’s been almost two years ago. But it is normal, just live with this pain, live at full and you won’t notice how it steps aside. Although I believe that people never really get over something. We just forget, adapt, ignore…

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]]> By: azzbe http://www.winbackexblog.com/how-to-get-ex-back/how-long-did-it-take-for-you-to-get-over-your-ex/comment-page-1#comment-343 azzbe Sat, 13 Sep 2008 14:12:56 +0000 http://www.winbackexblog.com/how-to-get-ex-back/how-long-did-it-take-for-you-to-get-over-your-ex#comment-343 I suppose it all depends on how far into the future you made plans.The further into your life you imagined your ex, the longer it will take to be over them. 6 years prolly means you will always have feelings for him, but with time the feelings will change. hopefully you will find somebody who appreciates you for who you are and give you everything your ex could not. Good Luck! <br><b>References : </b><br> I suppose it all depends on how far into the future you made plans.The further into your life you imagined your ex, the longer it will take to be over them. 6 years prolly means you will always have feelings for him, but with time the feelings will change. hopefully you will find somebody who appreciates you for who you are and give you everything your ex could not. Good Luck!

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]]> By: neworleansgirl24 http://www.winbackexblog.com/how-to-get-ex-back/how-long-did-it-take-for-you-to-get-over-your-ex/comment-page-1#comment-342 neworleansgirl24 Sat, 13 Sep 2008 14:12:51 +0000 http://www.winbackexblog.com/how-to-get-ex-back/how-long-did-it-take-for-you-to-get-over-your-ex#comment-342 I'm 24 I was in a relationship for 5 years and we broke up about a year ago and I'm just feeling like I'm healing.....I guess dating other people and far as you guys still being friends that doesn't help at all I had to like distant myself big if I wanted to get over it all and it worked good luck hun it will get better<br><b>References : </b><br> I’m 24 I was in a relationship for 5 years and we broke up about a year ago and I’m just feeling like I’m healing…..I guess dating other people and far as you guys still being friends that doesn’t help at all I had to like distant myself big if I wanted to get over it all and it worked good luck hun it will get better
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