how do i cope with a long term relationship break up?

Posted on September 28th, 2008 by admin in Relationship Break Up

My boyfriend is feeling confused about his life at the moment, whether he should move back to where he was when he was a child or to stay here and start fresh, either way would end the relationship. He said he doesn’t love as much anymore and one part of him wants to stay with me and the other wants to go out and be a lad. What shall i do and how shall i feel, annoyed or upset? please help me

For some obvious reasons(whatever that may be.)whatever he decides anyway would end your relationship. It’s quite upsetting, but you should be thankful that at an early stage of your relationship., you could see where your relationship going..in my opinion, he’s not ready to any serious commitment. If he want’s to go out and be a lad, let him be..don’t even try to beg him, if he loves you 100% he shouldn’t have any second thoughts in the first place..sometimes, men are just too polite to actually end-up a relationship, and they come up with this different excuses..(to give women some hints) So just set him free, if he’ll comes back, then maybe it was meant to be..How to cope with it? just focus on yourself, and learn how to love yourself first before others.

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10 Responses to “how do i cope with a long term relationship break up?”

  1. Adrian A Says:
    March 10th, 2008 at 5:13 am

    Let him live his life. Don't hold him back. If you do and the relationship continues there WILL be resentment.

    Just let it go….
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  2. Dylan W Says:
    March 10th, 2008 at 5:13 am

    idk talk to him
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  3. KinderBuenoFiend Says:
    March 10th, 2008 at 5:14 am

    You can't feel anything, everything changes around us. I think you should let him go, clinging onto something that isn't there isn't fair on either of you. Things will look up, just keep yourself busy.
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  4. Four Seasons Says:
    March 10th, 2008 at 5:14 am

    I will leave him
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  5. est Says:
    March 10th, 2008 at 5:15 am

    you poor thing…
    unfortunately the only thing you can really do is let him go…
    before resentment creeps in
    and trust me you dont want that….

    as for how you should feel
    no-one can really answer that
    as time goes on you will go through a wealth of emotions…

    best of luck to you..
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  6. diamondjade Says:
    March 10th, 2008 at 5:17 am

    Well if u look at life like me then u know that "nothin and noone is forever" So its a good time to evaluate your life wish your b/f luck with his "self findin" and move on if u2 are ment to be together he will come lookin if not dont wollow in self pity hun pick uself up and dust uself down and find your own way good luck t.c xx
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  7. jo1975 Says:
    March 10th, 2008 at 5:17 am

    I'd let him go… if he loves you enough he'll try living away from you and come back when he realises he can't be without you. If you put obstacles in his way he'll feel released and not come back. Make sure you let him know how you feel tho if it is angry, sad or indifferent, so he knows where he stands in the future. Good luck. (time helps a lot)
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  8. Cescil TM Says:
    March 10th, 2008 at 5:27 am

    For some obvious reasons(whatever that may be.)whatever he decides anyway would end your relationship. It's quite upsetting, but you should be thankful that at an early stage of your relationship., you could see where your relationship going..in my opinion, he's not ready to any serious commitment. If he want's to go out and be a lad, let him be..don't even try to beg him, if he loves you 100% he shouldn't have any second thoughts in the first place..sometimes, men are just too polite to actually end-up a relationship, and they come up with this different excuses..(to give women some hints) So just set him free, if he'll comes back, then maybe it was meant to be..How to cope with it? just focus on yourself, and learn how to love yourself first before others.
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  9. pottydotty Says:
    March 10th, 2008 at 5:28 am

    releived at the lucky escape you are being given, dump him and run for freedom and find someone worthy of your time and love!!
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  10. Vix Says:
    March 10th, 2008 at 11:49 am

    if i were you i would just talk to him and tell him u love and care enough about him to let him go then just walk away end relationship that way you have made it easy and not prolonged the heartache -if he truely loves you and wants you then some time apart will make him realise what hes missing-if he doesnt come back or after you then its better ending things sooner rather than later and in time the right guy will find you good luck hun
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