In a long term relationship break up then marry someone within months?

Posted on October 12th, 2008 by admin in Relationship Break Up

Is it just me or what?…
every time i hear of people breaking up after being with someone for years and marrying someone new right away. Why do people do that?
but they get married! thats a big deal! … i could see dating .. hooking up. but my goodness married. is it like they realized what they wanted?

that’s what happened to me when I started dating my wife. I had been with someone for over 2 years, we broke up, and I started dating my wife. 6 months later we were married. I think it’s that you get out of what you thought was “the relationship”, and wind up finding who you’re meant to be with, because you’re not looking

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9 Responses to “In a long term relationship break up then marry someone within months?”

  1. are you serious Says:
    June 24th, 2008 at 8:39 am

    rebounding.
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  2. Kari Says:
    June 24th, 2008 at 8:40 am

    It's called Rebound. Don't worry, these people will be divorced before you know it.
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  3. Christie M Says:
    June 24th, 2008 at 8:41 am

    because they need to make a "soft landing" to someone else, and they don't want to be alone.
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  4. pebbles_1472 Says:
    June 24th, 2008 at 8:42 am

    Alot of times it is the fact that in that person's mind it had been over long before the actual end came. They are ready to move on.

    Now whether or not they just happen to find the right person right off the bat……that is another story and it rarely happens.
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  5. fer fer Says:
    June 24th, 2008 at 8:45 am

    that's what happened to me when I started dating my wife. I had been with someone for over 2 years, we broke up, and I started dating my wife. 6 months later we were married. I think it's that you get out of what you thought was "the relationship", and wind up finding who you're meant to be with, because you're not looking
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  6. MissE Says:
    June 24th, 2008 at 8:47 am

    Because it is soooooooooooooooooo much better and you can't believe you actually stuck with your ex for so long.

    I left a LTR; 4 months later I got together with my SO moved in 8 months after my break up (this involved a across the world move and having to be apart for 2 months). Getting married after 2 years together and never been happier in my life.

    It does seem soon and it seems as if you can't live without somebody in your life at first glance. However I am perfectly content on my own (was on my own for 9 years prior to the LTR) and had no intention of finding anybody. A far cry from it, but I was not going to pass up on the love of my life on the basis of what it may seem like to other people.
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  7. Vegito Says:
    June 24th, 2008 at 8:48 am

    There is a good chance that the person fresh out of a long term relationship already has a good idea of what they want and are not interested in playing around in relationships anymore, they just cut to the case and get-her-done.
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  8. GEMINI-1966 Says:
    June 24th, 2008 at 8:48 am

    Some ppl are committed to making mistakes and some are just committed to their compassion and desire to be with someone…
    They call it co-dependency, wheras, you rely on others to find your happiness and contentment…
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  9. Invisigoth Says:
    June 24th, 2008 at 9:01 am

    that is just your proof that they were with the wrong person all those years or that they were stringing along the other person until the right one came along.

    When it's a case of being with the wrong person, they are with the person in the long term relationship more out of convenience or habit or fear of being alone.

    When they are just stringing the person along, they already know they are with the wrong person and know they have no intentions of marrying that person, but they are using them for the sex or companionship or paycheck while they are still looking for the person they want to marry.
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