Relationship break up?

Posted on September 18th, 2008 by admin in Relationship Break Up

My boyfriend out of nowhere wants to go on a break. I’m really confused about it because he says he loves and wants to marry over the next two years but something in his head is saying he doesn’t want a relationship at the moment and he wants time to figure out what it means? I’m getting mass upset. He says other people bother him with questions about it. He wants a month break. I think this is kind of long for a break and we ain’t going to ‘see’ other people.. It just seems confusing to me.. Gahh.. How can I cope with this? I just really don’t want to loose him he is the best thing that has ever happened to me and makes me feel so special and happy.. It just seemed like a good relationship and it seems weird to have a break.. We spend all weekends together.. Any other ways do you think a break can happen or what. This is confusing I know ha. I’m mass confused. I know he does mean it when he says he loves me..
And no there are no other girls in his life. I just don’t trust breaks…
And we are mass comfortable around each other and always have fun around each other..

Ever heard of “cave time?” He’s said he needs some space to get his thoughts straight. Why not take him at his word? Smile, say “ok, Love. I sure hope you are going to come back to me, but if you don’t I guess there’ll be a reason.” If he comes back, you’ll know you’re ok. If he doesn’t, better you find out before you marry. You can’t deny him this. You can’t ever deny them their “cave time” without it coming back and biting you on the bum. Even if you get married, he’ll still need his cave time. It’s a guy thing they can’t switch off, just like you can’t switch off your need to talk to him. There aren’t many things a guy appreciates more than a girl who understands his need for cave time and is gracious about it.
Good luck :)

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3 Responses to “Relationship break up?”

  1. NELA Says:
    August 5th, 2008 at 1:24 am

    Just give him some space. He’ll probably miss you and come back to you.
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  2. whitemssmr Says:
    August 5th, 2008 at 1:28 am

    if you cannot stay together now without any breaks, what is the sense of getting married? when u get married there is no i need a month break, there’s no words in vows That say breaks are ok.if you really want to know if he loves u give him his break, don’t contact him let him call you.it will suck but you will really find out how he feels about you.
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  3. Rosie_0801 Says:
    August 5th, 2008 at 2:04 am

    Ever heard of “cave time?” He’s said he needs some space to get his thoughts straight. Why not take him at his word? Smile, say “ok, Love. I sure hope you are going to come back to me, but if you don’t I guess there’ll be a reason.” If he comes back, you’ll know you’re ok. If he doesn’t, better you find out before you marry. You can’t deny him this. You can’t ever deny them their “cave time” without it coming back and biting you on the bum. Even if you get married, he’ll still need his cave time. It’s a guy thing they can’t switch off, just like you can’t switch off your need to talk to him. There aren’t many things a guy appreciates more than a girl who understands his need for cave time and is gracious about it.
    Good luck :)
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