Comments on: What causes people in a loving relationship to break up?

By: cale11

cale11 — Sun, 06 Jan 2008 18:53:00 +0000

I can only speak for myself. My 2nd wife hated my son. My son was suffering and if was very hard on me. She did not see a problem and would not change. I still love her. If i had it to do over again i would have handled it differently.
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By: Enovia S

Enovia S — Sun, 06 Jan 2008 16:29:39 +0000

I was in a situation like this a couple months ago. My ex and I was together for 3 years. After 3 years of beening with each other we grew apart some how. I grew apart from after finding things out about what was going on behind my back. Even though he loved, I wasn't the only one for him. So people who love each other spilt or break it off after finding things out or constantly arguing about the situation and little things. Hope this help you.
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By: transplanted_fireweed

transplanted_fireweed — Sun, 06 Jan 2008 16:29:00 +0000

Usually it's the result of one or both not being their real self, not being honest with their partner. One or both often try to impress the other when they meet, and as one person told me a while ago, "Most everyone can be nice for at least a year." But when the real person(s) finally take their "nice" masks off, it becomes apparent that the person they fell in love with didn't really exist.

Another reason is that people do change….usually not in just one year's time, although it is possible, but over time a person can change to the point where the person you fell in love with doesn't exist anymore, either.

I don't believe that honest, true love ever "gets tired" of the person they love. Dishonesty which breeds mistrust destroys love, even in little things that don't seem important at the time can add up and eventually undermine a relationship.
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By: angela g

angela g — Sun, 06 Jan 2008 16:26:01 +0000

as individuals we just change and together your no longer compatible. it not that they stop loving each other your love for one another just changes.
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By: blossom

blossom — Sun, 06 Jan 2008 16:24:19 +0000

its complicated basically 1 partner doesnt satisfy the other 1 fully and i dont mean sexually it coul b in a variety of ways from sex to promises.
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By: Kiss My @ss Phucking reporters

Kiss My @ss Phucking reporters — Sun, 06 Jan 2008 16:24:14 +0000

when they put their career, goal, or education above love.
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By: thumperene

thumperene — Sun, 06 Jan 2008 16:23:29 +0000

It's not true love to begin with, because love grows.
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By: Orbach

Orbach — Sun, 06 Jan 2008 16:21:53 +0000

It depends on the individuals personality. Some people are very controlling, some people are easy going, some are very demanding, others like to test the water to see if they catch something better. Some people are very happy, some are very sad. Many many many things comes into play when mature people break up. As for immature people that's just in their nature, in their attitude to mess thing ups. They don't have any appreciation for anything good…….Again your question is very general because people are not usually on the same page.
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By: Natalie S

Natalie S — Sun, 06 Jan 2008 16:21:14 +0000

no somthing or someone gets in the middle of the relationship and if its serious enough they break up. or it could be one persons realization about their partner or relationship
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By: CitiBoy008

CitiBoy008 — Sun, 06 Jan 2008 16:21:06 +0000

A year is not long in a loving relation ship... you can't really say it was a loving relationship till it's been 5 or more years. The first year or two is just to find out if you can be together. So if youre asking about why couples break up after a year, then I'd say it's because they figured out something about the other person that they weren't willing to live with. We all have our faults, but are you willing to live with the other person's faults even if they don't change?
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