i think for sure it must be waking up in the morning and not remembering that you are not together.. then suddenly realizing it and you just start crying.
wow thats definatley BANG ON that truely is so depressing.
another one is just seeing the smallest thing that reminds you of them in anyway and you just get this bad stomach pain and u just want them back in your life so bad
October 9th, 2007 at 9:24 pm
Loneliness … Sadness …. Denial and Trying to come into acceptance with it
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October 9th, 2007 at 9:25 pm
I totally agree. I'm just going through a break up now, and the absolute worst thing is waking up in the morning and wondering why things don't feel right, then remembering you've lost that person you care about so much. And also missing them all the time, trying to fill in the time you would have spent together and getting used to the fact they won't be around anymore. Damn my broken heart!
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October 9th, 2007 at 9:25 pm
wow thats definatley BANG ON that truely is so depressing.
another one is just seeing the smallest thing that reminds you of them in anyway and you just gget this bad stomach pain and u just want them back in your life so bad
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October 9th, 2007 at 9:27 pm
roughest part for me was the memories. i would see something that would remind me of a memory of us and it would tear me into.
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October 9th, 2007 at 9:27 pm
yeah, that and seeing reminders of the person, and sleeping by yourself, and well theres alotta hard parts about it……
hence the word "break"
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October 9th, 2007 at 9:28 pm
For me it was always going to places that we had been to together before. Vacation spots, bars, restaurants, wherever. Any place we had happy times. But then I always remember the bad times and it doesn't hurt so much. Also, when you do meet someone else, take them to all those places you went to before with your ex. You'll make new memories of those places and it will feel a whole lot better.
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October 9th, 2007 at 9:29 pm
it is trust being able to trust someone again
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October 9th, 2007 at 9:41 pm
laying numb in the bad at night, hoping that's special someone were with you instead of somewhere else..
waking up and finding there's nothing important to look forward to..
nobody to call during lunch breaks to annoy..
telling yourself that everything will get better everyday and if it hurts, the wound is healing.. sometimes it's not..
I'm tearing up right now..I've just broke up with boyfriend of 2 years..
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October 9th, 2007 at 9:56 pm
For me accepting the reality that it's over between the two of you is hard but taking the first step of moving on after the break-up is the hardest.
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October 9th, 2007 at 10:37 pm
for me it's the getting to sleep part that's difficult. I'm used to having someone in bed with me and I normally have to cuddle to fall asleep. That and seeing little things to remind you about it doesn't help.
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