Am I cheating myself to win my ex back?

Posted on October 26th, 2008 by admin in Win Back Ex

My ex spouse divorced me three years ago for another woman. They knew each other for the past nine years and have been live together for three years. I knew my ex husband loved her enough to divorced me, it was not "one time" cheating issue. I have tried to win him back since because we have married for 17 years and I had hard time to let go our past even though it has cuased the problems in his new relationship. After his current partner decided to find her own peace, she decided to let him go. We now back to together and I could understand that sometimes it is hard to get along with my ex because he is not an open minded and never said sorry in the past. He left me for the same reason that he left this woman becasue it is hard to get along with him. My ex told me that they have not seen each other for two months. Will he see her again if our realtionship does not work? I knew I was wrong to break their relationship, but I wanted my family back. Am I cheating myself for a dream?

From the detail provided, you are cheating yourself for a dream. Please get some professional help to get over this loser. If you take him back, the moment the other woman changes her mind and needs a little fling, your husband will oblige. Please move on for your own sake.

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4 Responses to “Am I cheating myself to win my ex back?”

  1. Richard F Says:
    November 25th, 2007 at 8:47 am

    From the detail provided, you are cheating yourself for a dream. Please get some professional help to get over this loser. If you take him back, the moment the other woman changes her mind and needs a little fling, your husband will oblige. Please move on for your own sake.
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  2. darshika k Says:
    November 25th, 2007 at 8:52 am

    i think 1 of u is the "back up" wife
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  3. csiders30 Says:
    November 25th, 2007 at 8:57 am

    Dont be the second choice.
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  4. The Mrs. Says:
    November 25th, 2007 at 9:00 am

    I think you are. I wonder why either of you put up with him. I think he knows he has someone to be with no matter what and is using it to control the situation. Now, if you aren't getting along it probably means you should not be together. I don't know the details from this situation, but from the sounds of things I think you should tell him to go back to her and be done with him. Your child deserves a loving peaceful home, even if that means his parents live in separate ones.
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