Can I win my ex-girlfriend back?

Posted on November 3rd, 2008 by admin in Win Back Ex

I am a senior in high school and so is my ex-girlfriend. She asked me to winter formal in January, and we began dating the next day until she broke up with me about a month ago because she said “She felt that we were more of friends than anything more, and that it wasn’t fair to me since she saw it that way”. I feel a big part of the problem is that I never kissed her during those two months we were together as the whole boyfriend thing for me was new. Anyway, her friend told me to ask her to prom, so I did by writing her a song and putting it on a CD for her. I asked her if we could get back together after she said yes to prom, but she said “Since we broke up, I still haven’t felt a connection past friends.” Prom is next weekend, should I let the idea of getting her back go or can I still win her feelings again? All your help is really appreciated.

Dude, I'm a senior in high school too.
What she's saying very clearly is that she needs to see your affection for her in more than just emotional ways. Break out of your shell and show her physically that you care and want to be with her.

You can have her back, you just need to be willing to step out of your normal comfort level.

Good luck

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19 Responses to “Can I win my ex-girlfriend back?”

  1. Daniella Says:
    April 19th, 2008 at 12:58 pm

    move on! she obviously doesnt like you.
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  2. looking4help Says:
    April 19th, 2008 at 12:58 pm

    Do something that would surprize her, but something that she would really like.

    Make her want you back.
    Jealousy works most of the time.

    Best of luck my good friend.
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  3. ma the destroyer Says:
    April 19th, 2008 at 12:59 pm

    take her by the reins and hump her into submission
    thats the way to do it
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  4. The Offender! Says:
    April 19th, 2008 at 12:59 pm

    Sounds like she's working really hard to avoid you, so I would move on. There are other girls out there, and you deserve better. Make sure to kiss the next one before one month, just to be on the safe side!
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  5. Steel Saint Says:
    April 19th, 2008 at 12:59 pm

    Not kissing her is the reason she sees this. Even though everything is new, you gotta learn sometime. Had you gone in for the kill a little earlier, things may be different. I don't think things can change for you because she already has that image of a good friend in her mind.
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  6. sookie_nyla_baboolal Says:
    April 19th, 2008 at 1:00 pm

    walk up to her and plant one on her….and say "jus being friendly"
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  7. cool purple Says:
    April 19th, 2008 at 1:00 pm

    i think she's moved on
    and i think she's been sweet about it

    i think if you keep trying to get her back, she's going to end up resenting you

    of course i don't know the situation but that's what it seems to me

    kissing a girl is pretty important if you are dating someone. i'm not saying all people feel that way, but i have to think that was probably a big thing for her.

    good luck with your new girlie friends!
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  8. SkiDude Says:
    April 19th, 2008 at 1:00 pm

    you should take her to prom and show her an awesome night. make her laugh a lot and dont bring up anything you guys dating. then before you drop her off or whatever, you should kiss her. you could ask her then or wait until the day after so she has a night to think about.
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  9. Tyler H Says:
    April 19th, 2008 at 1:00 pm

    Well, consider what may have driven her to not want to be with you anymore in your guy's past relationship? Did you not spend as much time with her as you could of? We're you insensitive to her feelings, etc? It may not even be you at all, but rather that she just sees you as a friend, as she has said, and that you should value your friendship. If she said yes to Prom, then she may like you in a relationship sort of way, but that's all speculation. If you want to get back with her, then consider asking what exactly made her not want to be in a relationship anymore, then see if you can work it out with her.
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  10. Marissa Says:
    April 19th, 2008 at 1:00 pm

    Ask another girl out she will get jealous especially if she doesnt have a date.
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  11. Stephanie Says:
    April 19th, 2008 at 1:00 pm

    Yucky….. so this girl broke up with you because she wanted to move faster than you did? Let her go before she jerry springers your life and you become and babys daddy instead of just you.

    I say leave her alone and go to the dance by yourself and dance with anyone you want too and take pictures with your friends. Youre a senior count your lucky stars you made it out without a leach on you.
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  12. kissitboy Says:
    April 19th, 2008 at 1:00 pm

    awww, how sweet.

    what ya gotta do at prom is randomly kiss her on the lips for a minute or two. hopefully she won't pull away. by the way, do it while you two are talking, not while your dancing and grab her by the hips and move in.
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    well….you no.

  13. girlnextdoor Says:
    April 19th, 2008 at 1:00 pm

    you sound really sweet. i dont know whay she doesnt like you. at the dance, you have to show her how much you care about her. dont pressure her though. that would make it worse for you. if after the prom she still doesnt like you back, then you should probibly just stay friends. you shouldnt waste your time trying to get somthing you cant have. theres gonna be a girl for you. trust me.

    -mk
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  14. Gabriella ♫♪ Says:
    April 19th, 2008 at 1:01 pm

    If she feels that you are no more then friends, try not to push her. But, when you do go to the prom show her that you do like her more then friends, kiss her on the cheek a couple of times, compliment on what she is wearing, and give her flowers. Those small things make girls like guys alot.

    Bye, hope I helped :)
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  15. Daniel Owns Says:
    April 19th, 2008 at 1:01 pm

    Dude, I'm a senior in high school too.
    What she's saying very clearly is that she needs to see your affection for her in more than just emotional ways. Break out of your shell and show her physically that you care and want to be with her.

    You can have her back, you just need to be willing to step out of your normal comfort level.

    Good luck
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    A Senior in HS
    A "ladies man" lol

  16. romanianbabe101 Says:
    April 19th, 2008 at 1:04 pm

    just get a better girlll
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  17. dani.metin Says:
    April 19th, 2008 at 1:05 pm

    You can try. She may have only decided to be friends because it seemed like it wasn't going anywhere cos you hadn't kissed yet.
    My opinion is you should buy roses and wait outside her house/class and ask to take her to the prom. Romance works.
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  18. pauletteandrea Says:
    April 19th, 2008 at 1:15 pm

    Ok Bobby, so you did make a mistake by not kissing her in such a long time!! and if you were supposed to be girlfriend and boyfriend, of course you had to kiss her, going out not kissing equals just friends. Probably she did like you and still does maybe especially if she said yes to you when you asked her to prom. What you have to do now is to have the initiative, make the first move and keep doing things to show her you like her, do things of a man, of a gentleman, ask her out, give her things she likes (I don't know if she's like most women: chocolates, flowers…), write her notes, the CD detail with the song you wrote was GREAT!!! do more things of the kind and KISS HER! Wait until the right moment, don't hurry it but don't postpone it like the last time, hug her, hold her face between your hands and KISS HER!
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  19. Tieshia B Says:
    April 19th, 2008 at 1:36 pm

    i think that you should kept waiting but if there is some one that you will like to take to prom then do it and if she wants to talk after poem or the next day when she realized wat she lost then after you have talk and have an understanding if she says yes then give her a good kiss and she how she feels about that and and if she says no and wants to be friends then i think that you should respect that and let her go and move on
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