How can I win my ex-girlfriend back?

Posted on October 24th, 2008 by admin in Win Back Ex

I’m a senior in high school and so is my ex. We broke up about 3 weeks ago, because she felt that we were more of friends than anything more. Sadly, after two months of dating, I hadn’t even kissed her yet, which could have been why she felt we were more of friends. However, I asked her to prom last night by writing her a song and she said yes. However, I asked her if we could get back together afterwards, and she said, “I still haven’t felt a connection as more than friends since our break up so I can’t really say yes right now.” I really like her still, she means so much to me-How can I win her feelings back? Should I bring it up again after prom? Is it even possible to win her feelings back? Thank you so much for your time, it means a lot!

I think she wants you to stop being such a wuss and be more of a man. Girls want to date men, not boys that remind them of their little brother. 2 months and you never kissed her? Take her to prom, treat her like a princess the whole night and take charge like a man. Grab her by the back of the head, look her in the eyes and kiss her! Dance with her, make her feel like a woman. Thats what she wants from you! Open your eyes kid. It sounds like she likes you and wants to be with you, but you aren't giving her a reason to stay together in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship because you don't do anything that boyfriend/girlfriends do, ie kiss, touch, etc.

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6 Responses to “How can I win my ex-girlfriend back?”

  1. TG Says:
    April 8th, 2008 at 7:35 am

    I think she wants you to stop being such a wuss and be more of a man. Girls want to date men, not boys that remind them of their little brother. 2 months and you never kissed her? Take her to prom, treat her like a princess the whole night and take charge like a man. Grab her by the back of the head, look her in the eyes and kiss her! Dance with her, make her feel like a woman. Thats what she wants from you! Open your eyes kid. It sounds like she likes you and wants to be with you, but you aren't giving her a reason to stay together in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship because you don't do anything that boyfriend/girlfriends do, ie kiss, touch, etc.
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  2. high school chick Says:
    April 8th, 2008 at 7:35 am

    give her time to cool down it was sweet to write her a song but you have to think maybe she feels the same way about you its just hard for her to know how you fell about her because you never kissed her if you don't show her how you really feel then she will never know if she can like someone that only likes her has a friend so at prom show her that you love her in a cute not obviuss way something small that she will notice don't make it bold because you might just scare he off
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  3. John M Says:
    April 8th, 2008 at 7:36 am

    Dude move on. Seriously, she is aware that changes are amidst and she is preparing for her new future. Have some foresight and look after yourself by accepting that she is ready to move on. Think of it this way, you are moving on also. You never know what could be waiting just around the corner for you.
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  4. brit Says:
    April 8th, 2008 at 7:37 am

    I know this sounds crazy…. but "flip the script". Stay busy and act like you are happy. Go to the gym, hang out with friends, and do not let her know you are stressing. You will have prom night to be romantic etc. Until then do not be so smoothering. do not call her…i know it will be hard…but hide your phone if you have too.. get online and answer questions for other people stay busy.. let her call you.. if that is a couple of days it is okay.. good luck
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    coming from a girl

  5. dorisimages Says:
    April 8th, 2008 at 7:40 am

    Actually, you are selfish in thinking that you wanna to win back of your ex-girl friend.

    You learnt that what is the reason for the separation but you've an wrong concept that you would like to be the winner as you have asked your ex-girlfriend to get back with you but she refused. I believe that if the answer that came from you, you will have clear mind on it. Please give yourself and your ex-girlfriend a spacing, if you are love each other, it is not necessary for you to doing anything in special.
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  6. Jeannie Says:
    April 8th, 2008 at 7:54 am

    Don't push her; honestly, if its not meant to be, its not meant to be..be glad that she wants you in her life and values your friendship. If you don't put expectations on your relationships, then the both of you won't feel any pressure and who knows what your friendship will become. But if you go in there, hoping to win here heart, you are setting yourself up to possibly be ddisappointed and hurt. Respect her feelings and know that she cares about you but she may always just see you as a friend and that should be enough for you.
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