I want to win my ex gf's heart back.. i need some ideas, advice?

Posted on October 16th, 2008 by admin in Win Back Ex

My ex says she loves me and always will, but she said she is not in love with me anymore, we where together for a year 3months, she said i smothered her for the last like 2 months and she couldnt handle it, at first i blamed her and said she was being stupid.. we broke up over 2 months ago, i soon did relise that it was my fault and i worked on myself and i am a better person now.. but she doesnt beleive me and she said she doesnt want to go back there again, she said she cares alot about me and isnt in love with me at the mo. she said she wants to be freinds… is it possible i can win her heart back, i told her if she only wants to be freinds thats ok, i respect her wishs, im trying to show her that i have changed, im not an insecure, jealous, overprotective guy anymore, im confident and open and happy with who i am… i miss her alot, i truely love her, im willing to let her go, cause thats what she wants, i need to know if theres a chance i can win her back? any1 have advice?

Continue to be her friend, and just wait things out, it may take her a while to see the changes you said you have made within yourself, give her the time she needs to decide things for herself after giving her enough time she may decide she still just wants to be friends or have no relationship at all but it is ultimately her choice, but atleast you will still have her in your life untill she makes her decision, if she hasnt made a decision about anything then you may have to move on and find someone else who is better suited for you…

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8 Responses to “I want to win my ex gf's heart back.. i need some ideas, advice?”

  1. J9 Says:
    January 9th, 2007 at 10:12 am

    you should respect her wishes and be friends for even just this moment and see if you can win her back that way dont obsess over it but ask her every so often if she would like to go on a
    "date" and then you can charm her and show her how much you changed be honest about it dont put on a show and in some time give her and yourself time it could happen
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  2. Deborah J Says:
    January 9th, 2007 at 10:12 am

    just let her find out that you have changed dont keep on bothering her she will find out that you have changed and come back to you just give her some time to think things over and figure out what she wants to do
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  3. Cнєℓℓšιι Bαвιι--0χ Says:
    January 9th, 2007 at 10:12 am

    You go for it!!!.. You sound such a lavly lad lol.. But dnt let her hurt you..
    If shes worth it and you kno shes worth it then fakkin go for it..
    Be the lad she 1st fell in love with.. If u can remmeber how u did it lol, 3months and a year :o .. You cant jst let her throw tht away.. Go get her.. and please tell me ow it goes..
    Best of luck to you =D.. xxx
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  4. jan Says:
    January 9th, 2007 at 10:14 am

    If you think it's worth it, stick around more and prove to her through your actions that you have changed. I imagine it's hard for anyone to believe that one can change in two months. If you don't get the response you want from her after some particular time. Then you should let her go.
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  5. Rachel S Says:
    January 9th, 2007 at 10:23 am

    I'm sorry to say this because it's not going to answer your question, but 2 months? Can you really change who you are, you know, the person you have always been all up until this point, in 2 months? Do you want to change for someone who has fallen out of love with you? The only way you can win her back is by actually changing the fact that you are a smotherer, IF that is the only reason for the break up. You have to actually change and she has to recognize that change without you forcing her to see it. When I say forcing, i mean by TRYING to let her know. If you really honestly have changed, she'll recognize it. But that's going to take some time. Give it time.
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  6. Dianna R Says:
    January 9th, 2007 at 10:29 am

    You will not win her back with how you are being

    First you need to except and respect her wishes – it has been two month you were together for over a year and didn't change – and now in twon months you want her to think you have changed

    You need to really examine yourself and figure out what you want in a relationship – most men whou are insecure or jealous have self esteem issues – and then want a woman who is secure and well rounded, and has that self esteem, but through out the course of the relationship your weakness and insecurity you impose them on her – and she you put her down because you want her to understand you – she will never understand you because she is not like you –

    There is a lot that you need to work on for yourself in order to be in a healthy relationship – she already knows that about you – she can be your friend but as it stand you will only push her away further – by continuing yo bombard her because you think you have changed.

    For her at this point it doesn’t matter and the more you call her the less she will want you – she has made up her mind – let her be – if she was so close to you she will contact you when she needs someone. When she does be her friend – in the mean time work on yourself, and for a start have her give you a list of what she didn’t like so you know how to better yourself, and she will be impressed by you making this effort

    What ever you do – DO NOT – argue with her about what she tells you – if you DO NOT understand what she means then ask her for clarification – if you argue with her you have blown the entire effort you were making. She will think tell you that is what I mean and you will never change.

    Hearing the truth about ourselves is never easy but it is part of maturing.

    Good Luck
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  7. tragedy16 Says:
    January 9th, 2007 at 11:35 am

    Continue to be her friend, and just wait things out, it may take her a while to see the changes you said you have made within yourself, give her the time she needs to decide things for herself after giving her enough time she may decide she still just wants to be friends or have no relationship at all but it is ultimately her choice, but atleast you will still have her in your life untill she makes her decision, if she hasnt made a decision about anything then you may have to move on and find someone else who is better suited for you…
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  8. deezbrats Says:
    January 9th, 2007 at 8:26 pm

    maybe give her the time she has requested let her miss you for a while, that's all she wants is to be friends don't push it. Find you a friend while she's having her fun. Sounds like she wants a Pie & Ice Cream too. Don't beg cause that will push her futher away, be patient with her she'll come around when you show her you can give her what she wants,and the fact that you really have changed the reason why she doesn't believe it took you 1year 3months to creat this person it will take sometime to uncreat this person Ya Dig?
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