Comments on: My best friend's trying to win his ex back. It's a lost cause. What can I say? http://www.winbackexblog.com/win-back-ex/my-best-friends-trying-to-win-his-ex-back-its-a-lost-cause-what-can-i-say Tips and Articles to Win Back Ex Sat, 18 Oct 2008 04:48:54 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.2 hourly 1 By: princess http://www.winbackexblog.com/win-back-ex/my-best-friends-trying-to-win-his-ex-back-its-a-lost-cause-what-can-i-say/comment-page-1#comment-696 princess Wed, 29 Mar 2006 14:17:07 +0000 http://www.winbackexblog.com/win-back-ex/my-best-friends-trying-to-win-his-ex-back-its-a-lost-cause-what-can-i-say#comment-696 Well missyjenn i think that you should continue to talk to your friend and tell him that its not going to work out,i think that he must leave your friend alone to live her life.your friend should have thougth of making it up before your girlfriend got merried.<br><b>References : </b><br> Well missyjenn i think that you should continue to talk to your friend and tell him that its not going to work out,i think that he must leave your friend alone to live her life.your friend should have thougth of making it up before your girlfriend got merried.
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]]> By: mrbigg_6969 http://www.winbackexblog.com/win-back-ex/my-best-friends-trying-to-win-his-ex-back-its-a-lost-cause-what-can-i-say/comment-page-1#comment-695 mrbigg_6969 Wed, 29 Mar 2006 13:26:06 +0000 http://www.winbackexblog.com/win-back-ex/my-best-friends-trying-to-win-his-ex-back-its-a-lost-cause-what-can-i-say#comment-695 U HAVE TOLD HIM. THAT IS ALL THAT U CAN DO. JUST BE THERE FOR HIM..<br><b>References : </b><br> U HAVE TOLD HIM. THAT IS ALL THAT U CAN DO. JUST BE THERE FOR HIM..
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]]> By: warehaus http://www.winbackexblog.com/win-back-ex/my-best-friends-trying-to-win-his-ex-back-its-a-lost-cause-what-can-i-say/comment-page-1#comment-694 warehaus Wed, 29 Mar 2006 13:21:58 +0000 http://www.winbackexblog.com/win-back-ex/my-best-friends-trying-to-win-his-ex-back-its-a-lost-cause-what-can-i-say#comment-694 I think that as this former couple's friend, you'll have to just hold your tongue on this. If this guy is determined, he'll just resent your "interfering" and it could hurt your friendship. I think if the married-and-moving-to-England ex-wife is happy in her new situation, she will not be swayed by this guy no matter what. Let him hear it from her once and for all. Your friend is going to have to learn the hard way. For now, I would tell him that you've said what you're going to say on the issue and then say no more. Then just be a friend to him once the situation has resolved. He'll probably need a shoulder to cry on.<br><b>References : </b><br> I think that as this former couple's friend, you'll have to just hold your tongue on this. If this guy is determined, he'll just resent your "interfering" and it could hurt your friendship. I think if the married-and-moving-to-England ex-wife is happy in her new situation, she will not be swayed by this guy no matter what. Let him hear it from her once and for all.

Your friend is going to have to learn the hard way.

For now, I would tell him that you've said what you're going to say on the issue and then say no more. Then just be a friend to him once the situation has resolved. He'll probably need a shoulder to cry on.
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]]> By: Loki http://www.winbackexblog.com/win-back-ex/my-best-friends-trying-to-win-his-ex-back-its-a-lost-cause-what-can-i-say/comment-page-1#comment-693 Loki Wed, 29 Mar 2006 13:21:23 +0000 http://www.winbackexblog.com/win-back-ex/my-best-friends-trying-to-win-his-ex-back-its-a-lost-cause-what-can-i-say#comment-693 due to experience, i believe as a good friend you should tell him that if he loves her he will let her be happy. it's her decision as well. i actually just tried doing the same and it backfired on me big time. take into account her feelings towards him too. have they changed? is she still in love or has deep feelings for him too? if so, then there is hope. but if there is no hope, then all he probablly will accomplish is to hurt her new relationship and possibly her marriage. i believe you shouldn't succumb to his threats also. make a decision: stay on his side and support him or stay neutral and want nothing to do with this.<br><b>References : </b><br>past experiences :) due to experience, i believe as a good friend you should tell him that if he loves her he will let her be happy. it's her decision as well. i actually just tried doing the same and it backfired on me big time. take into account her feelings towards him too. have they changed? is she still in love or has deep feelings for him too? if so, then there is hope. but if there is no hope, then all he probablly will accomplish is to hurt her new relationship and possibly her marriage. i believe you shouldn't succumb to his threats also. make a decision: stay on his side and support him or stay neutral and want nothing to do with this.
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]]> By: silascurrie http://www.winbackexblog.com/win-back-ex/my-best-friends-trying-to-win-his-ex-back-its-a-lost-cause-what-can-i-say/comment-page-1#comment-692 silascurrie Wed, 29 Mar 2006 13:20:48 +0000 http://www.winbackexblog.com/win-back-ex/my-best-friends-trying-to-win-his-ex-back-its-a-lost-cause-what-can-i-say#comment-692 good luck. you've said your part and tendered advice that most would agree with. If he persists with it he is going to hurt very badly for the next 3/5 years. been there, got the t-shirt. It says 'I'm a moron'.<br><b>References : </b><br> good luck.
you've said your part and tendered advice that most would agree with. If he persists with it he is going to hurt very badly for the next 3/5 years. been there, got the t-shirt. It says 'I'm a moron'.
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]]> By: medtlcmom http://www.winbackexblog.com/win-back-ex/my-best-friends-trying-to-win-his-ex-back-its-a-lost-cause-what-can-i-say/comment-page-1#comment-691 medtlcmom Wed, 29 Mar 2006 13:20:24 +0000 http://www.winbackexblog.com/win-back-ex/my-best-friends-trying-to-win-his-ex-back-its-a-lost-cause-what-can-i-say#comment-691 BE NEUTRAL!!!!! don't help him in any way.he needs to grow up and learn that an EX is an EX for a reason.she married someone else for a reason. just stay out of it.<br><b>References : </b><br> BE NEUTRAL!!!!! don't help him in any way.he needs to grow up and learn that an EX is an EX for a reason.she married someone else for a reason. just stay out of it.
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]]> By: auntb93 http://www.winbackexblog.com/win-back-ex/my-best-friends-trying-to-win-his-ex-back-its-a-lost-cause-what-can-i-say/comment-page-1#comment-690 auntb93 Wed, 29 Mar 2006 13:20:19 +0000 http://www.winbackexblog.com/win-back-ex/my-best-friends-trying-to-win-his-ex-back-its-a-lost-cause-what-can-i-say#comment-690 Since she's also a good friend of yours, you can point out to him that she has too much self-respect and integrity to treat her husband in such a shabby way. Point out that he would not want someone he cares about to throw off her moral values just so he can have his own way; that you love him enough to know he's not that selfish. He'll get over it once she's gone, but it's going to be a touchy month!<br><b>References : </b><br> Since she's also a good friend of yours, you can point out to him that she has too much self-respect and integrity to treat her husband in such a shabby way. Point out that he would not want someone he cares about to throw off her moral values just so he can have his own way; that you love him enough to know he's not that selfish. He'll get over it once she's gone, but it's going to be a touchy month!
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]]> By: seeking http://www.winbackexblog.com/win-back-ex/my-best-friends-trying-to-win-his-ex-back-its-a-lost-cause-what-can-i-say/comment-page-1#comment-689 seeking Wed, 29 Mar 2006 13:20:07 +0000 http://www.winbackexblog.com/win-back-ex/my-best-friends-trying-to-win-his-ex-back-its-a-lost-cause-what-can-i-say#comment-689 let him see on his own because obviously, He is not paying you no mind.I would stay out of that.sometimes it can get ugly when you know both of the ex's. just becareful and stay out of it!!!<br><b>References : </b><br> let him see on his own because obviously, He is not paying you no mind.I would stay out of that.sometimes it can get ugly when you know both of the ex's. just becareful and stay out of it!!!
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]]> By: julianna76301 http://www.winbackexblog.com/win-back-ex/my-best-friends-trying-to-win-his-ex-back-its-a-lost-cause-what-can-i-say/comment-page-1#comment-688 julianna76301 Wed, 29 Mar 2006 13:19:57 +0000 http://www.winbackexblog.com/win-back-ex/my-best-friends-trying-to-win-his-ex-back-its-a-lost-cause-what-can-i-say#comment-688 You are just going to have to sit back and watch him fail, and when it falls apart for him, just be a friend and help him pick up the pieces. Sometimes we have to put ourselves through hell to realize that what we thought we needed or wanted isn't going to happen for us. He will need a friend when this is over, so be prepared. And whatever you do, please don't say "I told you so..." he will feel bad enough. Good Luck.<br><b>References : </b><br> You are just going to have to sit back and watch him fail, and when it falls apart for him, just be a friend and help him pick up the pieces. Sometimes we have to put ourselves through hell to realize that what we thought we needed or wanted isn't going to happen for us. He will need a friend when this is over, so be prepared. And whatever you do, please don't say "I told you so…" he will feel bad enough. Good Luck.
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]]> By: DutchApplePie http://www.winbackexblog.com/win-back-ex/my-best-friends-trying-to-win-his-ex-back-its-a-lost-cause-what-can-i-say/comment-page-1#comment-687 DutchApplePie Wed, 29 Mar 2006 13:19:20 +0000 http://www.winbackexblog.com/win-back-ex/my-best-friends-trying-to-win-his-ex-back-its-a-lost-cause-what-can-i-say#comment-687 Stay out of the way, if ths person wants to do this then it is up to them. You have already said all that you can say but in the end they are an adult.<br><b>References : </b><br> Stay out of the way, if ths person wants to do this then it is up to them. You have already said all that you can say but in the end they are an adult.
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