i have been with my ex for almost 2 years, then i start neglecting her because i was about to graduate and i started to focus harder on trying to graduate and finding the right job, i figured she should understand.For almost 4- 5 months, i barely spoke to her cos i was worried about our future. Then, she decided not to see me anymore. I figured it was okay, and she would come back. i waited 3-4 months and i finally got this great job with this software company makin over 60000 as a college graduate. I decided to do the first thing, to go win my ex, i did everything i could, i begged her to understand, i was doing it for her, i sent her flowers, i called many times, i did evrythin by the book, but she thinks i will only hurt her again. This time, i found out from her email she wanted to bu a car about 3 weeks ago, but she couldnt afford it, the car is about $24,000. I am thinking of buying her the car as a gift, do you guys think she will take and accept me back.
she is not a mterialistic person, so that is why i am not sure. Would you ladies out there take your man back if you thought he was selfish and he bought you a car. I have been trying to win her back for almost 3 months now and she keeps giving me the same excuses about me been selfish and i care only about myself. What do you guys think
Don't give her the car and go make her jealous instead. This is the only thing you haven't tried yet. Plus, are you sure she's still single?
April 29th, 2008 at 8:30 am
shes not into u u cant make some one love u if they dont feel it i mean if ur asking her to pertend to make u happi u r selfish she jsut dont want u get over it and dont give her the car she wont excetp u back cause u give her giftes annd if she dose shell feeal oblagated to stay with u beacuse of it not cause she loves u and that is selfish to put some one in that position just get over it greve and find a new girl who appreacates u for the kind heart u r
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April 29th, 2008 at 8:30 am
Move on to someone else.
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April 29th, 2008 at 8:34 am
Don't give her the car and go make her jealous instead. This is the only thing you haven't tried yet. Plus, are you sure she's still single?
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