what are the best steps that i should take to win my ex back?

Posted on September 3rd, 2008 by admin in Win Back Ex

she decided to break up with me only recently..but i really luv her..she’s like the sweetest girl i’ve ever met..pls..i need help..read again my question..i dont want any advice telling that i should stop seeing her etc..i just want to know ur opinion, maybe u guys have some effective ways to win an ex back..

dont try to make her jealous (thats stupid.) let her know how you feel but dont do it in a clingy, creepy kind of way. you need to let her have her time apart, she may have things that she needs to figure out, but you need to let her know that your here for her if she needs to talk (but dont lead her to believe that your willing to wait forever, because she might use you as a doormat and no one wants that!) and etc.

be her friend, and let her figure things out, if she loves you she’ll come back on her own, give her the time & space she wants, but dont push her out of ur life completely, be there for her when she needs someone to be there (be her friend.)

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12 Responses to “what are the best steps that i should take to win my ex back?”

  1. Kokoa Says:
    August 20th, 2006 at 1:26 am

    find out why she broke up with you and do what you need to do to make that better.
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  2. ziegler910 Says:
    August 20th, 2006 at 1:26 am

    see her at your apartment or house if shes single ask her to come back to you in a way that whould be in a movie
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  3. Terry Says:
    August 20th, 2006 at 1:27 am

    be friends with her and very nice to her this time and show her that you still love her by caring for her and in time she will love you again.. that's what my bf did.. and he win me back!! good luck.. (-.-)
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  4. JoeIQ Says:
    August 20th, 2006 at 1:27 am

    let her see you with another (preferrably better looking) girl. The sooner the better. Act happy in your life without her.

    When you see her pretend like you never went out.

    I've never seen Hitch, but they say it is very helpful.
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  5. Sassy 24 Says:
    August 20th, 2006 at 1:27 am

    do the opposite of what you where doing before you guys became ex's
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  6. *.Manfa.* Says:
    August 20th, 2006 at 1:28 am

    dont try to make her jealous (thats stupid.) let her know how you feel but dont do it in a clingy, creepy kind of way. you need to let her have her time apart, she may have things that she needs to figure out, but you need to let her know that your here for her if she needs to talk (but dont lead her to believe that your willing to wait forever, because she might use you as a doormat and no one wants that!) and etc.

    be her friend, and let her figure things out, if she loves you she'll come back on her own, give her the time & space she wants, but dont push her out of ur life completely, be there for her when she needs someone to be there (be her friend.)
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  7. Enigma Says:
    August 20th, 2006 at 1:28 am

    Well… the first step would be to find out what you did wrong in her eyes and remedy that. Treat her with kindness (but DO NOT stalk her… it may seem cute but it actually isn't and can land you in trouble) and talk to her. Keep the communication up… and let her know you will always be there for her.

    I wish you luck.
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  8. AAP0305 Says:
    August 20th, 2006 at 1:29 am

    Don't try, just move on!! You can't force someone to be with you that doesn't want to. Do what we all have done and Get Over It!!!
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  9. no ones here Says:
    August 20th, 2006 at 1:29 am

    Tell her lies and false promises that she wants. Make madd love 2 her. In fact fuck her brains out. It gets me everytime. Oh yeah a diamond ring flowers money etc…
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  10. jgbier Says:
    August 20th, 2006 at 1:30 am

    Dude… move on. You don't make a great couple, just because you love her. I suggest you hold out for someone who wants you as much as you want her.

    The day you propose is the only time you should be on your knee. If you feel like you have to beg for her attention when you are only dating….. I see a bumpy marriage in your future.

    Don't go there brother; you will meet another gal.
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  11. Cristalito Says:
    August 20th, 2006 at 1:34 am

    It all depends on why she broke up with you. Maybe you should figure that out and do the opposite. If you cheated and she's a sweet girl like you said, swear to never do it again, say you were drunk, etc. whatever. Buy her something expensive do something chivalrious and that should fix the problem. If she broke up with you cause she was bored, then she probally wants you to be more active with your life, but genuinenly sweet girls don't break up with guys over boredom. Anyhow, you probally did something stupid. So stop it, tell her you'll change something drastic in relation to what you did. Like if you slept with someone while you were drunk for example. You'll never get wasted again. You don't have to mean it, just say it, the thought of you giving up something so meaningful might let her know that you really care for her.
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  12. primamaria04 Says:
    August 20th, 2006 at 1:34 am

    Call her up ask her if she is seeing someone , if not then go for it , Re ask her out . If she says yes then go out. Do the things you would do when you were first wooing her. Do nice things for her . If she has chores that need to be done at her house , do them . If she wants to go out someplace , take her. Get back in with her family . Family is key , cuz if her little cousin or brother wants to hang out with you , she'll want to be around you too. The basic flower candy thing is good , does work . Cliche yes , maybe do something that fits with her personality. If she is a caring sharing person maybe volunteer time someplace. Go to places she frequents but don't be like a stalker there every step she takes. She'll report you. Don't try too hard. Good luck , best wishes.
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